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Q: Why Do Some Girls Say Mean Things???

asked by: tweety12986 on July 1st, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Ok, I thought this was a site where if you had a question, no matter how dumb the question was or whatever it was that you did someone would try to answer it to the best of their ability, and share some similar experiences. Now there are some people I will admit that ask questions that make you ask yourself "well why did you put yourself in that situation?", but that does not mean when you answer their question you throw that in their face I am sure they thought about that long and hard b4 they even came to this site! Rolling Eyes

like there was one older post I read and someone said that the girl was way too young be having sex and basically that she was dumb, ok it is ok to express that but you have to realize that this is a person too, and they do have feelings, and that there is always another way to say something if you just think. Its not everybody its just a few that I have noticed, and it just really bothered me, and I needed to vent I guess, maybe I am wrong if so I apologize, but just look at some older posts and some from now.
Meagan

Replies(19)

KissyBai912

replied on July 1st, 2004

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I think you are right.....I am sure I have probably been rude to some people....But I do have to say....Some of the questions are stupid and ought to be common sense. And some of the girls (me sometimes) just express that a little strongly.....Like asking if you can get ur g/f pregnant after jizzing on your hand waiting a few minutes, washing it, waiting a few minutes again and then fingering her without penetrating.....Thats just stupid....Lol. But I do have to say you are right and we should all try and watch what we say a little more......

tweety12986

replied on July 1st, 2004

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If anyone asked a question like that I am not sure I would even answer...Lol. I understand I read someones reply and it triggered something in my head, bcuz my bf's parents were just jumping on his case and he knew they would, and it bothered him to the point of depression and then other people were telling him the same thing making it worse and that post reminded me of that. But I wasnt singling anyone out I have been known to get on someone in person its apart of being human sadly.

lilmama2b_oct04

replied on July 1st, 2004

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Sometimes it just gets annoying when we have like 5 million people coming in one day askin if cum can get them pregnant pretty much...

tweety12986

replied on July 1st, 2004

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I understand that too, and when you are annoyed just dont answer them and return to the forum instead of saying something negative, dont get me wrong I agree that these people should know, but they ask for a reason.

lilmama2b_oct04

replied on July 1st, 2004

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Its hard not to post... Lol I dont know, its kinda hard to explain. It just makes you angry that there are people that dont know what gets you pregnant and they are out having sex, and then alot of them go and get abortions cuz they cant handle the fact that they had sex and got pregnant. Im not saying that any of these people would get an abortion, im just saying there are people that do that. I guess it just makes me so angry and I have to post. Does that make any sense? Like have knowledge about sex, before you have sex...

tweety12986

replied on July 1st, 2004

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True...True...

mommabear16

replied on July 1st, 2004

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The thing about that is some of us have been here for a long time. Some longer than others. What you don't relise is that...There are like several retarded questions a day asked! It gets really old so.....Some of us get on the grumpy side.

tweety12986

replied on July 1st, 2004

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True...True.

tweety12986

replied on July 1st, 2004

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Ok mommabear I do realize what you are saying, but when you see the stupid question and are on the grumpy side, not answering the question is a whole lot better than being mean. So just don't answer. I see a lot of the dumb questions you are talking about and you make it sound like since you have been here longer you talk to these people any kind of way. Its just not right is all I am saying

mommabear16

replied on July 1st, 2004

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Mmmm yeah but sometimes you really get like annoyed and stuff and like you have to reply other wise...Well...If you don't then...Then sometime later you will end up blowing up on someone who really didn't ask a stupid question.
Lol I know it sounds like really uber stupid but its the truth. I guess i'm crazy like that eh

tweety12986

replied on July 1st, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

I don't know... I guess thats just how some people are... So instead of just not answering that person's question you would rather make a not so nice/not really mean comment, so you won't blow up at another person later on. If people on the internet with a dumb question make you that mad to where you can't control what you say maybe you shouldn't even look at questions bcuz it might just be a dumb one.

smith8500

replied on July 1st, 2004

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Hey

In my opinon. When someone comes and says "we didn't have sex. He just touched his penis and then fingered me". Oh my god, I am dying here, am I pregnant? Am i? Please help me"

i am personally disgusted. Quit having sex if #1 you don't know how you can get pregnant and #2 you are that ignorant.
I don't like stupid people. That's my excuse.

sparklypixie12

replied on July 1st, 2004

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Im with chanda! Those people are pathetic. How on earth can they be having sex when they dont know the consequences? They need to go back to school!

tweety12986

replied on July 1st, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Chanda believe me I know what all of you are saying my co-op teacher was very dumb, he had something dumb to say evertime he saw me, and he just had to say it too, and it set me off everyday, and I told him many times that he was the dumbest man to set foot on earth ( which explains my p's the whole last semester), but these people obviously need help becuz they are ignorant of the fact, and I know it makes you angry, but I just think its easier to just not give them any kind of answer if its negative in any way. It seems to be that everyone thinks its ok with the exception of kissybai and I keep trying to explain, so I am through posting on this subject.

WhiteDragon213

replied on July 1st, 2004

Experienced User

To hopefully lighten up this post a little, it's a very easy situation to understand.

This message board is populated by pregnant girls. Pregnant girls are prone to mood swings. Therefore it is not a smart idea to antagonize girls who might be prone to ripping your arm out of your socket and beating you with it simply because their pregnancies are not being very kind to them at that moment

before my arm is ripped out of its socket and I am beaten with it, I remind you all this is a joke, a device designed to instigate laughter. But just in case, I think I might apply for the witness protection program....

(joking around girls, I hoped I brought some levity to the subject)

KariM1804

replied on July 1st, 2004

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Well I think .. Sometimes they just need a reality check. And sometimes we try to be nice, but if its just ridiculous.. Then it just is. Sometimes some people might be a little too aggressive (i have been im sure b4) but I mean like I said, sometimes the truth hurts and they need that reality check. It really depends on their situation. But its annoying.. People need to be educated on sex before having it.. They should know what gets peopel pregnant.

ADM12

replied on July 1st, 2004

New User

I know no one knows me...But I am just wondering, I was reading some of these posts, and some were talking about girls who are asking stupid questions,i asked a question that was i'm sure "stupid" or "dumb" to many, but is this not teen pregnancy board? I wasnt too sure how old everyone was on here..Or is this strictly for women who are pregnant and thats it? Im just wondering.

KariM1804

replied on July 1st, 2004

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What adm!?!?!? Yes.. This is a teen pregnancy forum.. But teens or not should be educated somewhat about sex... God, I had sex-ed in 7th grade.... So just because most are teens (not all) does not even give the excuse to be completely nieve about sex and not know what gets someone pregnant....And if they dont know what gets someone pregnant, they shouldnt be making the 'mature' decisision to have sex....Not sure how that was ment by you but you made it sound like just because people are teens that they are uneducated about sex.

nikki_caro

replied on July 1st, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

No everyone is welcome to the boards, guys, girls, pregnant or not everyone is welcome. The thing with the dumb questions is when people say.... "im on my period, I had a tampon in but his thing was near me and im freaking out!" I mean some common sense here is you shouldnt be near having sex if you have no idea what the consequenses are. Especially the young teens. We are ok with most of the am I pregnant questions, but when you come in here with something like "he put it in for like 10 seconds and some stuff might have gotten in me, am I pregnant?" I mean common sense here, I wonder if they are bs'ing with us, or they really have no clue. Thats why we get aggrivated

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