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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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Ugh, Feel Like ....just.....running Away
Posted: 06-30-04 11:55am
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Today I found out that my grandpa has
something else wrong with him, dunoh what
yet. I'm sure he is giong to die soon.
If he dies. I will go nuts. I won't go
out of my house for ages. Because if I
do, then I will probably get drunk and
high off my a$$...And look for fights.
But so, thats why I won't go out of my
house. I'm so angry at everything right
now.
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 06-30-04 11:57am
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I am so sorry to hear about your
grandfather but you cant think like that
you have a son that is depending on you
and you cannot let him down like that.. I
hope that everything works out for you.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 06-30-04 12:01pm
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Well your grandpa cant stay around
forever. You have to appreciate the time
that your with him now. Spend all the
precious moments you have! And dont get
drunk and high, you have a baby to take
care of! Be lucky you even have your
grandparents around! I never did. I met
my grandma like once that I can remember
and same for my grandpa, from my dads
side, I never even knew their name. And
my dads not even around nor does he know
im pregnant or married! But im handling
it just fine! Im not looking for trouble
because I have responsibilities and life
goes on. I think of my dad as a great
man. Being drunk and high is not gonna
get you anywhere. Just be there for him,
and then when hes gone, just spend time
with your son. And remember your grandpa
as a good person whos time has come now.
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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Posted: 06-30-04 12:05pm
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My grandfather helped raised me up until I
was seven!
He was the only father figure i've ever
had that didnt make love to me over. My
real dad denied that I was his and pushed
me away my step dad phucking molested me.
I won't just get over it.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 06-30-04 12:07pm
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Im not telling you to get over it, im
telling you to spend time with him or call
him while hes alive now!
Honesly why are you gonna get drunk and
high when you have a son there that needs
you?? Would your grandpa want to know
that thats what your gonna do after he
passes? I think not!
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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Posted: 06-30-04 12:11pm
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I made the point that I probably wouldnt
go out of my house because I don't want to
do something stupid like that.
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 06-30-04 12:16pm
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My mother died when I was nine. You never
get over it. I still cry and cry
everytime I think about her not being able
to meet mike, come to my wedding, meet her
grandchild... The list goes on and on.
You can make it, but you can't get over
it.
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 06-30-04 12:17pm
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I understand you are upset and that is
normal, but you need to stay calm and
hopeful, maybe he can pull through and you
can share more memories but maybe not.
Tell him to saveyou a chair in heaven.
Why dont you make a book abou tall the
good times you have had with him and go
and share it will him while he is still
with us. Honey you have to focus on the
positive. He will no longer be suffering.
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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Posted: 06-30-04 12:27pm
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If he dies, he's definatly not going to
heaven. Thats what makes it even
worse...I've been..And my mom has been
tryin to convince him for the past..God
knows how many years that god is real.
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 06-30-04 12:47pm
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Chances are he will still go to heaven.
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Scarf
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Feb 2004
Posts: 1062
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posted: 06-30-04 13:58pm
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My grandfather died a couple of years
ago..Im still not over it but I know its
not the end of the world. I live each day
in his name..Remember all the good times
and cherished all the time I did have with
him. Poetry and writings helped me a lot
through that time..Its a great way to deal
with things. Im sorry about your
grandfather..
Shannon xoxox 
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