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Q: Why It Is So Hard to Have a Baby ??
asked by: rinchan on June 29th, 2004
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I wonder why ???My husband is 34 and he is healthy and as for me I went for scanning doctor says nothing is wrong I am ok and I do ovulate everymonth and I can know when I ovulate and I can calculate when I will have my period after my ovulation...But just why it is so hard for me to become a mother ??? I pray to god and dont know why I didnt get a reply......So sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad
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bellax0x
replied on June 29th, 2004
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Hm, maybe your husband should go for a sperm count? Good luck hun!

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gaby
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bootsie840
replied on June 29th, 2004
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I agree maybe your husband shoud be checked out for low sperm, also if your trying really hard and keep thinking about it it wont happen, ive heard that so many times, dont think about it let your body relax and maybe you will become pregnant, also try going to Baby center. they have an ovulation calender that will give you the exact days of when to have sex to conceive a child, I know quite a few people that tried on the days when it said and they got pregnent, if al works out for your husband and hes okay try it but most importantly relax good things happen to those who wait, good luck
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rinchan
replied on June 29th, 2004
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Thank You So Much
Well I try to figure up what is the problem and at the same time also try not to thing so much. By the way thanks so much for your advice and caring. God bless us all
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momee2b
replied on July 1st, 2004
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Hi there! How long have you been trying? Don't lose hope, for others it takes awhile and I am sure god hears your prayers...In gods time it will be perfect...You'll see. Good luck and take care.
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rinchan
replied on July 2nd, 2004
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Thanks
Umm I am ok ..Just everytime when my period is around the corner I feel so upsad and no mood anymore. I feel why it is so hard for me to get pregnant.We are trying since we got marriaged last year september..Now I am trying to order ovulex and hope it works...Yet it is so hard to asked my husband to go for check up ...Everytime he will says no need to worry we will have our baby sooner or later just relax.....Umm everytime he try to make me not to worry so much. Well he is very lovely and we spend a good life together. Embarassed
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Deppfever
replied on July 3rd, 2004
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Hi, my husband and I have been trying for a baby for 7 months, I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks ago, but unfortunately I lost the baby last night Crying or Very sad
it annoys me because I do everything I should and yet people are drug addicts or drink and or smoke through their pregnancies and have no trouble at all!! It really upsets me Evil or Very Mad
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rinchan
replied on July 4th, 2004
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I Am So Sorry to Heard That
Well you are true ....People who wanted a baby so hard and yet some people really dont appriciated the gift at all then have a dozen of babies....Too bad. I am fastruated too... Well in your case I think you can get pregnant again very soon....No need to so sad but well easy to says then done I know your feelings but I just try to comfort you.....Well you are better then me I got nothing ......Always got period ha..H.A...Today I am expecting my period too but it is not yet show .....As for me I think it is sooner or later I will have my period after all I am not that lucky one.. Embarassed
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