Honey,
i am going to begin with the fact that he is 12 years older than you. To begin with, a man that has a physical relationship with a fifteen/sixteen/seventeen year old is going to be held responsible and could face prison time for statutory rape.
Also, I would speak with your mom. Does she know you are dating this man? If you knew it was possible to get pregnant, why didn't you use a condom? I'm glad you are deciding to keep the baby. I really am. God bless you and keep you and your baby safe.
Ccn330

Honey,
i am going to begin with the fact that he is 12 years older than you. To begin with, a man that has a physical relationship with a fifteen/sixteen/seventeen year old is going to be held responsible and could face prison time for statutory rape.
Also, I would speak with your mom. Does she know you are dating this man? If you knew it was possible to get pregnant, why didn't you use a condom? I'm glad you are deciding to keep the baby. I really am. God bless you and keep you and your baby safe.
Ccn330

Kitty,

I won't judge you because of how old you are, because i'm 18 years old and I had my 1st baby when I was 15 years old to. I'm now pregnant with my 2nd baby, and it's by a diffrent dad. All I want to say to you, is think about it, does he really love you? Can you see your self 10 years from now still with him? Sure you do. I said the same thing. Hes a lot older than you, you never know how your feelings are going to change when you get older, because they do. Sweetie i'll tell you what i've learned. I have a 2 1/2 year old little girl, her daddy said he loved me, and he would always be their for me. As I got older (1 year later), he began getting on my nerves, I did'nt even think he was cute anymore. We began fighting all the time, and he would'nt get a job. We had to live at his moms house, because he was so lazy. Now i'm pregnant again, this babies dad would always hit me, lock me up in a room for days, and no matter how many times I tried to break up with him, he would hit me even more. I stayed with him for 1 year, and now he hit me while I was pregnant and I put him in jail. The d.A. Wants to give him 6 years in state prison. So now i'm a pretty, 18 year old young lady, whose about to have her 2nd child. I'm just trying to tell you that your young, and you don't want to depend on any man. Think about it, he wants you to kill a little baby, f**k him. You said you work also right? Save up money yourself, and take care of your baby. Ask your family to help you, you'll never know until you ask. Don't forget to finsh school, it will be hard but it can be done. Take care of your self. Think hard about what your going to do. But think about it, what is a older man doing with someone so young? One thing that i've learned is all they want is sex, and to control you, because your so much younger than they are. Think about it. Good luck abd take care,
autumn :d :d

Autumn you and I are in the same boat!! I had my daughter kierra at 15 and I am now 33 weeks pregnant with my second child who is by a different dad and I am also 18. However I am engaged to my second baby's dad. Having a baby at 15 does not ruin your life! It just means that you have to grow up faster! You can still have a good time with a baby, just not as much! You can still have a life, but just need know that you are the center of that child's life and if you go out once in a while its no big deal but when you party all day, everyday they will look for another mommy figure!!


Good luck with everything!

Man! You both are amazing! I could not have handled having a baby at 15! I am glad that you don't feel "stuck" but are happy to be mothers!!

Much love
-jessika-

I am 15 too, and I have a 6 month old son. I am here for you if you need me.. I have been where you are...

Oh wow! I didn't know you were 15 mez! I though you were 16 or 17! Your an awesome mommy too! I want some updates on your little angel though!!

much love
-jessika-