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Q: 15 & Pregnant.
asked by: miss_kitty on September 21st, 2003
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Before everyone starts lecturing me about being too young to have sex, hear me out... My boyfriend is 27 years old & he has inpregnated 2 other girls which he has one 5 year old son too (the other girl had an abortion). His son doesn't live with him tho...

We started having unprotected sex about 2 months ago but he didn't blow in me but he started to when I was on my period and we figured if I was on my period that it wouldn't matter if he blew in me. So after I finished my period he still proceeded to blow in me anyway, and has been ever since.

Now there is no doubt in my mind that i'm pregnant, because if I wasn't by now and considering the amount of sperm that has been in me, I must be infertile.

He told me if I am pregnant to have an abortion, but I really don't want to have one, altho I told him i'd consider it.

I will be having the baby if I am pregnant, and I intend to be the best mother to it that I can be. My b/f earns over $1200 a fortnight from his job, I have a job, so we will hopefully be financially stable to support a baby. But a lot of problems still follow.

He lives with his parents at the moment but will be moving out soon in about 3-4 weeks in which if i'm pregnant I will be moving in with him.

I don't expect anyone to respond to this, just had to let it off my chest. Please don't judge me.
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youngmama
replied on September 21st, 2003
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Wow, well first of all I am not going to judge you. However I do have a couple questions, if he expects you do have an abortion are you sure that he is going to be there for you if you have this baby? Do your parents know that you are having sex with a man 12 years older than you? What is the age of consent in australia? I am not here to judge you but rather help you. If you want or desire advice please don't hesitate to ask!

Good luck and best wishes
-jessika-
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evilpickle
replied on September 21st, 2003
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Age of Consent
Age of consent is 16 in most places in australia...If parents find out and you are pregnant...He could be facing jail time......(he could face jail time even if you aren't pregnant) Confused

Http://www.Avert.Org/aofconsent.Htm
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phillygurl
replied on September 21st, 2003
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Well I just wanted to say no matter what he says or anybody says please dont get an abortion Exclamation I wish you the best luck and I hope that he will be there for you Smile
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smith8500
replied on September 21st, 2003
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Well
Sweetie, he's 27.... I mean.... Look at the age difference. I won't lecture you..... But I think the state and the laws might lecture him.

Good luck to you. I hope you make the decision that is right for you, but abortion is never the right answer.

Good luck,
chanda
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frozenglue
replied on September 21st, 2003
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Good Decision On Your Behalf
For keeping the child. I salute you. On the other hand, did you want to have a child? I mean, I would think he would have learned from the past two girls he was with that he shouldn't, as you put it "blow" inside you. I have not heard of that term till I came in here.

Anyway, someone mentioned that if he wanted you to have an abortion do you think he'll stay beside you? Do you really think he wants to move intogether? Have you even discussed this with him?

Sounds like it might be illegal as well.

First things first, get a pregnancy test and find out for sure. We're here fo you. :d
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nikki_caro
replied on September 22nd, 2003
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Yeah I suggest getting a test. He is older anyways and if he told you to get an abortion it means he doesnt want the baby, or there is a chance he wont even be there for you. Make sure you are pregnant first. And find a guy your own age if you are not.

What is "blow in you?"
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ceasargirl
replied on September 22nd, 2003
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Who
Hold up girl im not the one to jugde but dont you kind of think having sex on your period is nasty you can get an efection when your on your period it cleans your body so all that stuff your period takes out is bacteria inside of you.
And another thing your 15 and he is 27
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nikki_caro
replied on September 22nd, 2003
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Yeah thats kinda gross, the age and the period. He is one weird guy
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ceasargirl
replied on September 22nd, 2003
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Hold Up
Its not just that
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nikki_caro
replied on September 22nd, 2003
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It is. Sex during a period is gross, but many people do it anyways so whatever...But being a 27 year old man and having sex with a 15 year old. What is wrong with him? I will slap my son silly if he ever though about that. He is almost old enough to be her father.
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JLRbabygrl0330
replied on September 23rd, 2003
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If he isnt with his other kid what makes you think that he will stay with you Question im not trying to be mean or anything im just saying he is 27 and screwing 15 yr olds, he must not have life.
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Suzy
replied on September 23rd, 2003
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27 Year Old
I would choke the 27 year old if he was having sex with my 15 year old daughter, I would definately report him to the police for carnal knowledge. He is irresponsible. Dosen't sound like he is the brightest crayon in the pack either. Goodness me.

.::suzy::.

Ps. I hope for your sake girl, that you are not pregnant. And for god's sake from now on, get yourself on birth control pills. Surely you have a brain, use it please.
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youngmama
replied on September 23rd, 2003
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I with you suzy, not only would I choke him but I would cut the petruding parts of his body off! It would be like a consentration camp at mine and austin's house if a 27 year old guy had sex with cheyenne at 15!

-jessika-
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Heather_16
replied on September 23rd, 2003
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Hahahaha, nice one jessika. P.S. Concentration** ^_^

sorry, i'm a spelling nazi >.<

love ya toots,
heather
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youngmama
replied on September 23rd, 2003
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Lmao! I have been spelling retarded all day long! I forgot how to spell 'catch' earlier today when I was writing in my journal! I was gonna look it up but my brain wasn't processing the letters! Lol or maybe its cause I am a dork and have been out of the classroom too long!

Anyways!!
Much love
-jessika-
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miss_kitty
replied on September 24th, 2003
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Re: Who
ceasargirl wrote:
hold up girl im not the one to jugde but dont you kind of think having sex on your period is nasty you can get an efection when your on your period it cleans your body so all that stuff your period takes out is bacteria inside of you.

And another thing your 15 and he is 27


what's your point exactly?
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Misty
replied on September 24th, 2003
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Ok sweetie - u asked not to be judged so im not going to judge you - first off I appluad *spelling* you on deciding not to have an abortion, its just wrong. But if he doesnt' have his other child he might decide not to have yours either and by decide I mean he might not accept his responsibilities to you and this child. So even though you have this child you could give the baby up for adoption. I was supposed to have a baby and met many wonderful families some that were even going to let me visit the baby. Its always a possibility. That way you can let your child have a chance to live, and you can go back to school get an education, a full time job and then meet a man that is willing to stay with you and have a wonderful family and life style. Meanwhile, continue going to school, some people are definitly going to judge you there but thats what I was going to do and its a much better option than wasting the time. Best of luck sweetie and email me if you ever need any information on anything or advice or even if you just need someone to say its going to be ok. I'm there for ya. ~misty
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topinky4u
replied on September 30th, 2003
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Just a Note
Although I do agree that the age thing is illegal and you should see that no 27 year old man should be with a girl your age. Think about why he might be with someone so young and still living at home, at that. Anyway, I though I would just note that it will not cause an infection if you have sex on your period. Your period is getting rid of your utering lining that prepares itself once a month in case you do get pregnant. On your period, that lining is discarded to prepare to put a "fresh" one in it's place. That is why you have cramps. It is you uterus cramping up releasing the lining. The doctor has told me, that although gross, this is the least likely time to get pregnant. This will not cause an infection.
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insurancegirl
replied on October 1st, 2003
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