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Q: Paranoid As Hell... Terrible Night
asked by: jhl247 on June 21st, 2004
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Hi everyone,

my cousin and I were drinking at a bar one night about a month ago... He was being shipped off to iraq (us-marine) the next day... So I decided the 19 yr old kid can't even buy a beer legally and they're shipping him off to war, it's my patriotic duty to get him laid....

To make a long story short... We visited a brothel... I vaguely remembered the experience because I was drunk as hell. But I do remember that I had protected sex (she put on a condom), she gave me a bj, and then proceeded to have vaginal intercourse with me... After my orgasm, I pulled out and there was blood everywhere... I think it was because of her period, but she said that I was 'too strong.' naturally, I sobered up in 10 seconds... I remembered checking the condom to see if it was broken, but I don't remember if it was or wasn't. I pinched the tip to see if the semen was there, but I had masturbated a few hours beforehand so I couldn't tell if there was any in quantity.

So my question is: if the condom was broken, is my risk of exposure to an std extremely high because of the blood from menstration?... Where are the mucus glands located on my penis? I am uncircumcised, does that add any 'natural protection?' and I have her number, but she doesn't speak english, what should I ask her? (did she get pregnant? Etc.)

i have no apparent symptoms, no swelling of lymph nodes, no bumps, no pimples, etc...

Am I just being too paranoid?? I started doing the math, and this girl has probably had over 1,000 partners. Statistically speaking, she must be hiv positive. Then again, sex workers are extremely careful about protection.

Please help me! And thank you!
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andi xxx
replied on September 1st, 2004
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If u used protection I wouldnt worry too much and also if this was a "clean" brothel house then yes they are normally really strict about sexual health.
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PattyV
replied on September 3rd, 2004
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You are probably fine.Scared,but wiser,learn from this experience and stay out of cathouses.The more you frequent these places,your chances go up.Patty
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paulv
replied on September 14th, 2004
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Obviously, the best thing is to do is be tested and let the girl know the results, since she is likely to be the one to have infected you.
Because of the condom, your overall risk is probably fairly low,
but from what you said about it, there were a number of risky things that you did, and I think you need to get checked up in about 6 months, when they wll be able to do a reliable test.
1. First you had sex with someone in a high risk category. You were not even Sad able to talk to her to determine how high risk.
2. You were drunk so even if you took precautions, you can't be sure you did them right. Because you were drunk and could not communicate well with your partner (different language too), you are not able to tell what happened, and you can't get any reliable information from the girl.
3. If you are not circumcized, your risk of getting hiv/aids is actually 3 times greater. For some strange reason a foreskin on your penis, means that that are more likely to be infected.
Good luck and be more careful next time. Sad
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