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Q: I Am So Through With His Crap....
asked by: KissyBai912 on June 20th, 2004
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Ok as some of you know dewitt hadn't called me for 8 days when he promised he would call back 30 mins later. Well yesterday they got the card I sent him from josh, and his mom, not him, called me and said thanks and talked to me and blah blah blah. Well she gave the phone to him and he wasn't talking much and I asked him why he hadn't called and he said because he thought I was mad at him and he didn't want to make me even more mad. How lame is that? And than I said something about how I was stuck in the house with a couple of pervs b/c the 2 guys that were helping remodel our kitchen were 24 and they kept whistling at me everytime I got out of the pool to do something. And he got all mad and said that was like him telling me he was stuck in the house with a bunch of strippers or something and i'm like ummmm ok. And he had also promised to send out the paternity papers friday b4 last, and he said he didnt b/c the post office was closed due to ronald reagen death and then saturday he thought post didnt run and sunday it didnt and then I said something to someone else and when I was done I said now where were we? And he was like I don't remember and I said you were making up excuses for not sending the papers I believe you were at monday. He got all pissed at that too. Then I kept giving him a playfully hard time about not calling me (i wasnt even that mad) and hes like i'm as much as it hurts to say it, maybe josh should have been camerins. I hung up on him. Can you believe he said that? And he had the nerve to get mad at me? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.....


I think I am going to change josh's last name to mine and he will be lucky if I even put his name on the birth certificate. I am so sick of his crap and I am through.....Sorry I just had to vent.
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KariM1804
replied on June 20th, 2004
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Hey hun im so sorry about all what ur going through! Im confused, I dont know much about it, but I didnt know the guy had to send paternity papers? And who is camerin? I dont think I know the whole story* but yea I wouldnt use his last name if hes not being good about being a dad. I would keep yours. Thats certainly what im doin! But ur way better then that and u dont need to take his sh*t * I hope things turn up better for you!
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KissyBai912
replied on June 21st, 2004
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Thanks kari, I signed the paternity acknowledgment forms and I had to mail them to him so he could. He is just now sending them back, 6 weeks later.....Ugh.

Camerin is my ex-boyfriend, he was the one I was cheating on when I got pregnant. He is really great. He was helping me pick out names for the baby b4 I knew what he was and he was the first person I told when I found out he was a boy. He met josh and he absoloutly loves him...Lol. He didn't want to give him back to me. I have been really dumb, I mean any guy that wants anything to do with me and josh after what I put him through is obviously something special. And he doesn't treat josh as though he is what broke us up. He holds him and plays with him and just sits there and smiles his big ol head off at him. Lol. I'm not supposed to be around him because my mom thinks I will leave josh and sneak out and end up pregnant again. She is crazy. And I am not going to listen to her on this. She was right about dewitt, but she is wrong about this. Lol. I'll become a celibate if I have to. Lol. That's basically the story.
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angel4ever
replied on June 21st, 2004
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Chrissy- hey girl!! Ugh, sounds like dewitt is bein an fool again! (no offense). Be strong and dont put up with anyones sh*t. Im sorry, but he is obviously very immature and cant deal with the idea that he is a daddy. You and josh deserve better!
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cherry_pie
replied on June 21st, 2004
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Here, here.. Lol


or is it hear, hear? Meh, oh well..
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nikki_caro
replied on June 21st, 2004
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Chrissy you nerd, I told you! I said to not bother with him and dont give him the last name! Nerd butt!
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insurancegirl
replied on June 21st, 2004
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smith8500
replied on June 21st, 2004
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Chrissy,
you and joshy are too good for him! Don't let him have anything! He dosen't deserve it! Keep being a good mother to your lil man and leave dew out in the cold!
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KissyBai912
replied on June 21st, 2004
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Lol....Thanks guys....I am debating whether or not to put dewitts name on the birth certificate.....I wanna do it for josh, not for dewitt, because im know mine looks bare without a father.....But I really think he is getting my last name, as much as I hate it, unless I get like a 100 dollar check in the mail tomorrow (lol yeah right) but he is being a butthead and I am not going to go out of my way to make him feel like a part of this family when he's really not so thats that and nikki u b kwiet! Lol
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angel4ever
replied on June 21st, 2004
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I agree, u should deffinatly put his name on the birth certificate because no matter what, dewitt is in fact the biological father of josh. My birth certificate is blank where it says father, and even thought I know my father, I still wish my mom woulda put his name on the birth certificate.

I also think you should deffinatly give josh your last name. Youre the one thats there with him 24/7...Dewitt hasnt really shown any proof that he will be there.
Awww, lil joshie is a mamas boy, lol, and that sounds perfect to me!
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linuxChique
replied on June 21st, 2004
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Cherry- hear hear!
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KissyBai912
replied on June 21st, 2004
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Lol yup...Hes a mamas boy....And thats how it should be....I am going to put him on the birth certificate but he is getting my last name. Joshua blake robins-york.....Eh....No comment...Lol...O well.
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angel4ever
replied on June 21st, 2004
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I think it sounds fine! Why dont u like yur last name?
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nikki_caro
replied on June 21st, 2004
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It sounds fine nerd!!! Ya bum!
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