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Q: Help I Really Need to No If Im Pregnant Or Not
asked by: sally11 on June 19th, 2004
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Crying or Very sad Question hi
i need some help well about 2months ago I had sex for the 1st time n ive only done it twice from know I bled twice wen I did it. And the last time we had sex the condom broke n I still b but we didnt actually have sex for that long coz it was to painfull. But 8 days later I noticed some very lite pink spots wen I would wipe myself after I peed that whent on for 5 days then I noticed red blood all over my under wear n it was only for a day after that I had dark brown to light discharge. My bf told me it was coz I was a vergent its just dirty blood but I read about implantation blood could this be or is it just in my head I havent had any cramping yet or nothing. And it could not have been my periods coz my periods stoped 2weeks after I noticed the blood so it was too soon for period. Does anyone ahve any suggestions what it might be plzzz help im only 18. :cry
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Teenytoona
replied on June 19th, 2004
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Well it's altogether possible that your cycle went a little off and you had an early period. It's also possible that you had some tearing inside your vagina and you were bleeding from that - you might want to get into a doc so she can check you out and make sure there are no injuries! Please be careful during sex - it it hurts don't proceed - protect yourself Cool !! Also to avoid future painful sex or injuries make sure you are fully aroused (your vagina will open up bigger generally and you will be wet) or at the very least use lube. One of the things no one ever talks about is making sex not-painful for women, or what happens to women during sex (everybody and their momma knows men get hard, but no one knows women are supposed to get wet and open up).

What the blood actually is would be hard to say for certain over the internet, truth be told.

A bit about implantation bleeding: it doesn't always happen (in fact it's not the norm) and it would happen 2 weeks after ovulation, which means if you were going to have implantation bleeding, it would happen usually right about the same time your period would start. So the possibility of the blood you had being implantation bleeding seems to be slim.

Other than that, get yourself to a gyn and see what she has to say about the bleeding - just from what you said it sounds like injury blood, but I can't say for certain.
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sally11
replied on June 20th, 2004
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Thanks For the Advise
Hi thanks it helped abit. About the doctor I did go bout 1 week ago he told do you think you mite be pregnant I said no so he just told me come and see me in 2weeks and just relax. He said it mite be old blood or maybe pregnancy but his not shore he wants to run some test wen I get bak but I was so impassent I wanted to ehar what some one else had to say. But thank you and for the painfull sex I ahve a bit of a problem I love my bf so much n his very attractive but for some reason I cannot get arroused by him I just cannot relax. Is this a problem.
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Teenytoona
replied on June 20th, 2004
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You know, it takes a while to get comfortable with sex - especially at first. Maybe it's uncomfortable to talk about, but it will help your experience and your experience with sex as a couple. So try initiating a talk about it. Figure out if you have any major hang-ups about it and sort those out, and then talk to him about it. Just because sex is awkward for you now doesn't mean it's a result of your not loving him or him not being attractive. We have a society that sends out all kinds of garbagy messages about sex, and alot of women and some men have alot of sorting out of that junk to do. When you talk to him about it, tell him that it has nothign to do with him in particular, but you just have some stuff to sort out about sex to make sure you can really get into it.

I wish I had some fabulous pointers on how to talk about it, but it's really dependent upon the couple. Maybe if you have a therapist you can talk to her about it, or even a good friend (another woman perhaps that you can trust.).

Because honestly if all the sex you're having is uncomfortable that can put a damper on things (at best).

Hope this helps some!
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sally11
replied on June 20th, 2004
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Heyits me again :p
i talked to my boy about it he just said its because its my first time coz ive only had sex twice but im gona try again and see what happens n this time make sure im wet.........
Hey today im getiing cramps in my stomach should I bee worried but any way I got blood test done by my skin therapist she wante dto do test for my face and im geting the results on wed would this show anything or would it be too soon jsut wanted to know thanks.
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sally11
replied on June 25th, 2004
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Hi the results came negative but I new cause it was early but I got a problem I havwent gotwen my periods yet its been 37 days I get et every 28 should I do the hp test.
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hm_03
replied on June 25th, 2004
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I think you should because it's already been 37 days and if you get it every 28 days. It won't hurt to try because maybe it could be your period is running late or something good luck~~
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sally11
replied on June 26th, 2004
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I took the test today it came out negative I gues my periods are just late............ Im not pregnant what arelief Smile
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