I just sent an email to a person on this site and thought it turned out well and I wanted to share it with the rest of you...
"everyone makes thoughtless or inconsistant decisions atleast one time
in there life, that does not make them any less
intellegent or any less reliable, it just makes them
human! But making a thoughtless or inconsistant
decision about having a child is unlike any other
decision, it can not be undone or have an easy fix!
Given that, I want you to know that I think you will
make a right decision based on your life and what you
want to make of it! No path is right or wrong, some
just works better for others."
good luck and best wishes
-jessika-