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scaredmother
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2003
Posts: 10
Location: texas
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Why Did This Happen to Me
Posted: 09-19-03 15:21pm
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Im really depressed that this happend to
me and I dont know what to do..Im keeping
it cause I dont belive in abortions but im
just really scared.I didnt think this
would happen to me
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scaredmother
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2003
Posts: 10
Location: texas
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I Really Hope Yall Are Happy
Posted: 09-19-03 15:22pm
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Tanya
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003
Posts: 145
Location: Hmm
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Posted: 09-19-03 15:26pm
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If you didnt use protection thats why it
happened. In the future use protection
and you wont have to worry about any of
this. I hope your pregnancy goes well and
we're always here if you need to talk.
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scaredmother
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2003
Posts: 10
Location: texas
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I Did
Posted: 09-19-03 15:29pm
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I did use protection and the condom broke
inside me.....
Im just really confused with it all
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 09-19-03 15:31pm
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What do you mean you hope we are happy?
Why would we be happy? Well yeah you are
having a baby but there is nobody to blame
but yourself...And the guy who got you
pregnant. How could you be depressed
because it happened to you when you are
the one who went on to have sex? You
brought it upon yourself. You shouldnt be
scared. You need to think about this baby
now. Can you see yourself saying this if
your baby grew up to being 10? "oh, I was
depressed because I was pregnant with you
and you were a mistake" no you cant be
like that. The damage was done. You need
to get past that and look to a bright
future. Have you told the father yet? Do
you have medical insurance? You can
always apply for medi-cal if you dont.
Are you positive you are pregnant? How
far long are you? You cant worry no more.
Its gods plan. Good luck, take care and
keep us posted.
Jeremiah 29
11 for I know the plans I have for you,"
declares the lord , "plans to prosper you
and not to harm you, plans to give you
hope and a future. 12 then you will call
upon me and come and pray to me, and I
will listen to you.
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scaredmother
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2003
Posts: 10
Location: texas
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Posted: 09-19-03 15:35pm
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Im am 8wks n I am on medicade I am
accepting full responsibility for this
child I am working and still going to
school.....I dont want to deny this child
it was just unexpected you know...I
understand it was my fault and my bf but
its just my life has taken a suden change
thnks alot for your words
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 09-19-03 15:39pm
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Ok well then good luck. Make sure you get
a future plan going, and include god,
because once you dont, he can change your
plans like that. They are his plans not
yours. But take care of yourself. And
make sure you let your parents know. They
will be there for you in the long run,
even if they are upset.
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scaredmother
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2003
Posts: 10
Location: texas
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Posted: 09-19-03 15:41pm
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My parents know n the father knows the
pregnancy is out in the open n they are
all being supportave.....And I know once
my child comes out I will be soo
happy...God is the reason I decided to
keep it...God is totally in my life
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 09-19-03 15:43pm
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Thats great! Then celebrate your
pregnancy like you always wanted it! You
have all the support you need, dont worry
no more. Keep us posted on your
pregnancy!
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scaredmother
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2003
Posts: 10
Location: texas
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DeserttStarr
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003
Posts: 3
Location: Phoenix, Arizona
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Posted: 09-20-03 18:50pm
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I see that you call yourself scared....
Well sweetie it's ok to be scared and you
have every right to be.... I am 23
married with 2 kids and I am pregant right
now and I gotta tell ya I am scared
too.... I mean pregancy is a big thing
take a deep breathe and hey say a
prayer..... Glad to here that you chose
to go through with this pregnany .... And
just keep in mind adoption is always an
option the choice is yours
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scaredmother
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2003
Posts: 10
Location: texas
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Posted: 09-22-03 12:45pm
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Thnks alot I am really glad new its all
new to me but I already love my child with
all my heart thnks to all the support from
u all thnks alot
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