I Don't Know How to Feel About Him Now Posted: 09-19-03 13:50pm
I had sex with a guy that I thought that I
was in love with. Except we were not
going out and now we don't talk, I really
want to but all he does is look and act
like I don't exsist. I just recently
wrote him a letter telling how I felt and
he acted like he didn't give a caca.
What hurts me the most is the fact that I
was pregnate but then had a misscarriage
and he already got two girls pregnate and
they had misscarriages too. So I feel
that I just another girl he had sex
with-all my emotions are going haywire and
I just need some advice.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-19-03 14:08pm
I was just curious to know how old you
are? Well first thing is thats how some
guys are, pure inconsiderate suckers. My
advice is to get over him and move on.
You cant sit and wonder on a guy who takes
alot of girls as sex objects. Your one
of those three darlin so you are not
alone. Keep yourself occupied and
realize "hey, that dirtbag doesnt even
deserve me. He was lucky enough to even
be with me for that while" there are so
many guys out there and you will meet and
date (hopefully no sex...At least be
protected if there is) but you wont see
them if you mope around over the last one.
You need do get control of your emotions
and become the happy person you were
before you met him. Eventually he will
come around to talk to you but you dont
need it. One time the same thing happend
to me (only I didnt get pregnant) and he
blew me off and I kept paging him and I
felt so sad because he just tossed me like
that, but then I went out and met new guys
and eventually I met my husband!! (wasnt
my husband at the time though) and then
this guy decides to come back to me, 4
months later...And that tables turned, he
was bugging me to be with me. But it was
too late. They dont know what they have
until its gone. So cheer up darlin,
someone is better out there for you!!!
Sweetie I am very sorry that this guy was
so inconsiderate of you and your feelings!
But like nikki said you just need to pull
your emotions together and lift you head!
I know it will take some time to get over
but when it does just know that you are
better than guys like him and if he comes
crawling back, kick him to the curb!
A piece of advice...
Most guys are just not worth your tears,
and the one that is won't make you cry!
Good luck and best wishes
-jessika-
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illusionsmamma
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003 Posts: 210 Location: las vegas
Posted: 09-19-03 18:52pm
Girl don let a piece of s@$t guy get you
down like that life goes on and enjoy
while your there cause life is too short
be careful on having sex use protection
cause its hard being a young mom
god bless!!
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Lildreamer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 144 Location: CALI
Been There!!! Posted: 09-20-03 00:12am
I know what you mean! That happened to me
back when I first lost my virginity. I
was totally in love with him and he
promised he'd be with me forever. Not
even 2 days later his ex-hoes(sorry but I
have to say it) try to split us apart by
saying they were pregnant by him. He
broke up with me and never looked for me
again even when he found out they
weren't.(these girls were 12 & 13) it
broke my heart so bad....Till this day(3
years later) I think about what
happened.Recently he tried to come back
into my life,but it was hard to reject him
becuase he was my first love..Its ok
because I now have a boyfriend of 2 years
and in love with.As for him he is still a
loser with one of those girls( I
mentioned)due to have his child next
month!!!! I finally had the courage to
kick him to the curb and living my life
fine without him!!!!So dont trip! Someone
out there is ready to love you and make
you happy.Maybe it might still hurt when u
see him around with girls...I know it
still hurts me too!!He never deserved you
anyway.
