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Freak69

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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
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I Don't Know How to Feel About Him Now
Posted: 09-19-03 13:50pm

I had sex with a guy that I thought that I was in love with. Except we were not going out and now we don't talk, I really want to but all he does is look and act like I don't exsist. I just recently wrote him a letter telling how I felt and he acted like he didn't give a caca. What hurts me the most is the fact that I was pregnate but then had a misscarriage and he already got two girls pregnate and they had misscarriages too. So I feel that I just another girl he had sex with-all my emotions are going haywire and I just need some advice. Sad
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nikki_caro

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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
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Posted: 09-19-03 14:08pm

I was just curious to know how old you are? Well first thing is thats how some guys are, pure inconsiderate suckers. My advice is to get over him and move on. You cant sit and wonder on a guy who takes alot of girls as sex objects. Your one of those three darlin so you are not alone. Keep yourself occupied and realize "hey, that dirtbag doesnt even deserve me. He was lucky enough to even be with me for that while" there are so many guys out there and you will meet and date (hopefully no sex...At least be protected if there is) but you wont see them if you mope around over the last one. You need do get control of your emotions and become the happy person you were before you met him. Eventually he will come around to talk to you but you dont need it. One time the same thing happend to me (only I didnt get pregnant) and he blew me off and I kept paging him and I felt so sad because he just tossed me like that, but then I went out and met new guys and eventually I met my husband!! (wasnt my husband at the time though) and then this guy decides to come back to me, 4 months later...And that tables turned, he was bugging me to be with me. But it was too late. They dont know what they have until its gone. So cheer up darlin, someone is better out there for you!!!

Im here if you need to talk ok!
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youngmama

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Sep 2003
Posts: 437
Location: Cheyenne Naomi born 10-2-2003

Posted: 09-19-03 18:26pm

Very well said nikki!

Sweetie I am very sorry that this guy was so inconsiderate of you and your feelings! But like nikki said you just need to pull your emotions together and lift you head! I know it will take some time to get over but when it does just know that you are better than guys like him and if he comes crawling back, kick him to the curb!

A piece of advice...
Most guys are just not worth your tears, and the one that is won't make you cry!

Good luck and best wishes
-jessika-
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illusionsmamma

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 210
Location: las vegas

Posted: 09-19-03 18:52pm

Girl don let a piece of s@$t guy get you down like that life goes on and enjoy while your there cause life is too short be careful on having sex use protection cause its hard being a young mom

god bless!! Confused
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Lildreamer

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Joined: 14 Sep 2003
Posts: 144
Location: CALI
Been There!!!
Posted: 09-20-03 00:12am

I know what you mean! That happened to me back when I first lost my virginity. I was totally in love with him and he promised he'd be with me forever. Not even 2 days later his ex-hoes(sorry but I have to say it) try to split us apart by saying they were pregnant by him. He broke up with me and never looked for me again even when he found out they weren't.(these girls were 12 & 13) it broke my heart so bad....Till this day(3 years later) I think about what happened.Recently he tried to come back into my life,but it was hard to reject him becuase he was my first love..Its ok because I now have a boyfriend of 2 years and in love with.As for him he is still a loser with one of those girls( I mentioned)due to have his child next month!!!! I finally had the courage to kick him to the curb and living my life fine without him!!!!So dont trip! Someone out there is ready to love you and make you happy.Maybe it might still hurt when u see him around with girls...I know it still hurts me too!!He never deserved you anyway.
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