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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
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You Know What Really Upsets Me?????
Posted: 06-11-04 14:21pm
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This is an abortion debate forum. That
is just fine and dandy. So why is it
that some people feel the need to come
here, read posts, and then start a
negative post about certain users on a
different forum????
This is the debate forum....Why don't they
just debate with who they disagree with
here? That is the whole purpose of this
forum.
Also, I don't find it necessary for people
to read the posts here, and then pm me
cursing up a storm and calling me names.
If there is a problem they can be grown up
and bring it up here where they think it
all started.
Very immature.
I also really hate it when people read
part of a post and then take everything
out of context and start bashing me!
But, hey, it just shows who is not paying
attention and looking for fights. Not
me!
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jessechaseme
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 232
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Posted: 06-11-04 16:00pm
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Oh it's just a bunch of little girls who
insist on badmouthing anyone who thinks
differently than the rest of them. They
really are just ankle bite-ers in the grad
scheme of things... Don't let'em get to
you. 
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oopoopoop
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Posted: 06-11-04 16:06pm
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Ah, we might debate. They chat.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
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Posted: 06-11-04 16:56pm
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Man, I get bashed up and down on that teen
pregnancy forum, and you wanna know why?
Because I made a post one time just simply
stating that I do not understand why they
feel the need to curse. That is all I
said.
Now, I am a sick minded person, and will
never be "accepted" there. Any time I
post about anything the get all worked up.
It is hillarious.
I only go there because sometimes there is
a question that I can answer. That is
all. But, I am not wanted there. Don't
they realize that the forum is not high
school? I don't need to be accepted to
be there. And the angrier they get, the
more I will post!
This is not all of them, of course. Most
of those girls are very nice, it is just
the select few who need to grow up!
Anywho, poopoopoo I am surprised that you
have not gotten pm's telling you that you
are sick and need to be killed and blah
blah. I got tons of them because of the
"pregnancy as invasion" post. I guess
that just because I do not want children
that I am the devil. Well, so be it.
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oopoopoop
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Posted: 06-11-04 17:33pm
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How odd. No, never had a private message
from one of them. Someone thinks I should
be banned, though...Dunno why...
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
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Posted: 06-11-04 17:56pm
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Who in the world thinks you should be
banned?
It does seem really strange to me that you
are the one who made the initial post and
feel more strongly about it then I do, and
I am the one who gets all of these pm's.
It is also strange that people honestly
think that since I don't want children
personally then I am evil and should be
beaten to death or something. Very
silly.
Ah well, just shows who is more
intelligent.
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
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Frick N Poo
Posted: 06-11-04 21:29pm
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I don't think you're evil.Quite the
contrary.If more women were honest enough
to admit that they don't want children and
were smart enough to prevent it,abortion
and this forum wouldn't be neccessary!!
Pattyv
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2ferano
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purple333
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2003 Posts: 1420 Location: Sydney
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Posted: 06-13-04 03:30am
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All too many people, especially women seem
to think that they can't admit to any
feelings that are not considered
maternally right by society - my daughter
is 16 & I still get negative comments
when I freely admit that I chose (good
god, chose!! In fact the idea actually
nauseated me - don't know why it came as a
surprise to me when I was first pregnant
but there it was!!) not to breast feed. I
did sort of hold her up on day one but I
think she got the idea that I wasn't at
all keen on the idea so she opted for the
bottle - thank you god.
I am also guilty of using disposable
nappies, damn the environment!! I have
the right to my opinoins & beliefs
& feelings.
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JanetBee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Apr 2004 Posts: 332
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Re: Frick N Poo
Posted: 06-14-04 13:11pm
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| pattyv
wrote: | | .If more women were honest
enough to admit that they don't want
children and were smart enough to prevent
it,abortion and this forum wouldn't be
neccessary!! |
it is amazing that girls who didn't know
enough to use birth control suddenly think
they know enough to look after a baby!
But the problem is that so many women just
accept that they are supposed to have kids
and don't really think about it. And then
they find out it's tougher than they
thought or that they aren't very keen on
being parents, but then it's too late. I
always expected I would have kids, didn't
really think about it until I found out I
probably couldn't. And then I realised I
wasn't all that disappointed. I thought
there was something wrong with me, because
we are supposed to want children, and my
friends (and the then-boyfriend's mother!)
started suggesting ivf and all that, but
then I thought, why? Only because we are
supposed to have children. But some women
really do want them, like two of my
friends who are single and had babies at
40. One got pregnant by her ex-boyfriend,
and decided it was her last chance, and
the other made a baby on purpose with a
friend of hers who wanted to be a father.
But the only women I know who had
abortions did it for medical reasons, i.E.
Deformed fetuses, so this forum would
still be necessary because there's people
even want to take the choice away in those
circumstances.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
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Posted: 06-14-04 15:16pm
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Very good points.
I have said it before and I will say it
again: there is nothing wrong with not
wanting to have children!
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samie
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Apr 2004 Posts: 665
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Posted: 06-15-04 04:14am
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I think the private hate messages are well
over the top. I hope you didn’t reply to
them!
You have to understand to ordinary decent
people those who advocate the slaughter of
innocent children are incredibly sick
people who need help and I think you
should get some counselling or something.
I know your going to bash me for this but
I do recommend help of some sort for you
and to all women who think dismembering
and decapitating little babies is a
“normal” and “acceptable” thing to do.
Sometimes when people understand just what
your advocating they have a tendency to
strike out at you, it can not be condoned
but its easy to understand why!
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JanetBee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Apr 2004 Posts: 332
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Posted: 06-15-04 11:54am
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Samie you really need to think about why
you have become so evil and malicious.
You know full well that your exaggerations
just make you sound demented. Your view
of those who disagrees with you is
completely paranoid -- you totally
misrepresent things and if you actually
believe the things you are saying you are
probably dangerous.
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Sinsaint
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 May 2004 Posts: 90
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Posted: 06-15-04 13:50pm
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| Quote: |
tr> | all too many
people, especially women seem to think
that they can't admit to any feelings that
are not considered maternally right by
society - my daughter is 16 & I still
get negative comments when I freely admit
that I chose (good god, chose!! In fact
the idea actually nauseated me - don't
know why it came as a surprise to me when
I was first pregnant but there it was!!)
not to breast feed. I did sort of hold
her up on day one but I think she got the
idea that I wasn't at all keen on the idea
so she opted for the bottle - thank you
god. |
good lord!!! How dare you chose not to
breastfeed? Don't you know we are baby
making machines and not breastfeeding is
the devil's work? If you had no intention
of allowing your body to do what it was
naturally intended to do, you shouldn't
have had children. I
felt the same way, at least with my first.
I tried (unsuccessfully) with my second.
My third I actually did it. I considered
it a wonderful experience. I did
something for her that noone else could
and I felt like I bonded a lot easier with
her than my other two. But I wouldn't
knock anyone for not doing it. Feedings
every two hours. Leaky. Sore. Worried
about every little thing that enters your
body (i'm an avid tea drinker in the
morning). Baby would be fussy and gassy
when I ate certain foods and it always
seemed to be my favorite food too.
worried that the child gets enough. Not
comfortable feeding in public (or even
around some family members). But then
your breasts ache if you don't. And they
say it's cheeper to breastfeed. Maybe a
little but not by much. Breast pads,
pumps, vitamins, more groceries because
you have to eat all the time, high calorie
drinks, juices, nursing pillow, creams for
cracked nipples not to mention how
exhausted you get from little to no sleep.
Don't let anyone make you feel bad for
not doing it. It's a personal choice and
if you didn't feel comfortable about the
baby would have sensed it and it wouldn't
have worked.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
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Posted: 06-16-04 03:31am
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Samie whatever.
What I said, and I still mean is....If you
come onto an abortion debate forum and you
do not agree with me then fine. Tell me
right here on this post. Or whatever
post it was that you disagreed with.
Don't pm me and threaten me.
I am not evil and I do not need therapy.
You are the one who needs extensive
therapy. You obviously have several
issues.
Just because I am prochoice does not mean
that I have or would ever have an
abortion. It also does not mean that I
like the idea of it.
It simply means that I am educated and
understanding enough to understand that
some things are beyond our control and in
some instances it is necessary. And if
not necessary it is still not my business
what another woman feels that she has to
do.
People do not have to agree with me, but
they have no right to judge me, tell me I
am evil and need therapy!
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samie
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Apr 2004 Posts: 665
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Posted: 06-16-04 07:12am
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Perhaps they have a point you should at
least consider it!
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LittleOldMe
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jun 2004 Posts: 2 Location: England
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Posted: 06-16-04 07:56am
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| hotasfrick
wrote: |
i have said it before and I will say it
again: there is nothing wrong with not
wanting to have
children! |
:d :d :d :d
go girl.....!!
I started to say the same when I was about
17...... Every body laughed and gave me
knowing looks, "i said that when I was
your age" said mum (mother of 4 - bless
her) at 22 I told my boyfriend I would
only marry him if he understood I never
wanted children (married 19 yrs so far)
but the drs wouldn't listen so I paid for
my own sterilisation at 31... Hurrah.
And still today i'm more than happy with
my decsion..... In fact, i've friends
& family who tell me, in whispered
conspiratol tones, they wish they'd also
made the same choices.
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oopoopoop
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Posted: 06-16-04 08:12am
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Welcome, little o!
I had the same thing....Now I have a load
of friends who never wanted kids.
Strangely, children don't even run in my
family...My sister never had any. My
father's sister said to me a few years ago
that never once in her life did she want
to have children. My mother waited until
she was in her 30s, and then thought she'd
better have some, because it was expected,
not because she actually wanted any! What
is interesting, in view of the comments
made about me, i.E. That I am a she-devil
who would abuse, mutilate and torture kid
if I did have one, my mother absolutely
can't stand other people's kids to this
day! She liked me and and my sister just
fine though, and hardly beat us up at all
and almost never threw us out of airplanes
or any other moving vehicles (um, and
that was a joke, folks!).
Aside -- do you have a cat?
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
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Posted: 06-16-04 16:22pm
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Samie, stop wasting my time.
How would you like it if people started
sending you pm's telling you that you are
evil and sick minded because of your
opinions and that you (well, I am not
going to say what I was told, but a threat
anyway)
opinions are just that, and no one has any
right to pm me, or you for that matter and
threaten.
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samie
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Apr 2004 Posts: 665
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Posted: 06-17-04 04:42am
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I would expect it if I were pro choice
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