Oh it's just a bunch of little girls who insist on badmouthing anyone who thinks differently than the rest of them. They really are just ankle bite-ers in the grad scheme of things... Don't let'em get to you.

Ah, we might debate. They chat.

Man, I get bashed up and down on that teen pregnancy forum, and you wanna know why?
Because I made a post one time just simply stating that I do not understand why they feel the need to curse. That is all I said.
Now, I am a sick minded person, and will never be "accepted" there. Any time I post about anything the get all worked up. It is hillarious.
I only go there because sometimes there is a question that I can answer. That is all. But, I am not wanted there. Don't they realize that the forum is not high school? I don't need to be accepted to be there. And the angrier they get, the more I will post!

This is not all of them, of course. Most of those girls are very nice, it is just the select few who need to grow up!

Anywho, poopoopoo I am surprised that you have not gotten pm's telling you that you are sick and need to be killed and blah blah. I got tons of them because of the "pregnancy as invasion" post. I guess that just because I do not want children that I am the devil. Well, so be it.

How odd. No, never had a private message from one of them. Someone thinks I should be banned, though...Dunno why...

Who in the world thinks you should be banned?
It does seem really strange to me that you are the one who made the initial post and feel more strongly about it then I do, and I am the one who gets all of these pm's.
It is also strange that people honestly think that since I don't want children personally then I am evil and should be beaten to death or something. Very silly.

Ah well, just shows who is more intelligent.

I don't think you're evil.Quite the contrary.If more women were honest enough to admit that they don't want children and were smart enough to prevent it,abortion and this forum wouldn't be neccessary!!
Pattyv

Thank you patty!

All too many people, especially women seem to think that they can't admit to any feelings that are not considered maternally right by society - my daughter is 16 & I still get negative comments when I freely admit that I chose (good god, chose!! In fact the idea actually nauseated me - don't know why it came as a surprise to me when I was first pregnant but there it was!!) not to breast feed. I did sort of hold her up on day one but I think she got the idea that I wasn't at all keen on the idea so she opted for the bottle - thank you god.

I am also guilty of using disposable nappies, damn the environment!! I have the right to my opinoins & beliefs & feelings.

it is amazing that girls who didn't know enough to use birth control suddenly think they know enough to look after a baby! But the problem is that so many women just accept that they are supposed to have kids and don't really think about it. And then they find out it's tougher than they thought or that they aren't very keen on being parents, but then it's too late. I always expected I would have kids, didn't really think about it until I found out I probably couldn't. And then I realised I wasn't all that disappointed. I thought there was something wrong with me, because we are supposed to want children, and my friends (and the then-boyfriend's mother!) started suggesting ivf and all that, but then I thought, why? Only because we are supposed to have children. But some women really do want them, like two of my friends who are single and had babies at 40. One got pregnant by her ex-boyfriend, and decided it was her last chance, and the other made a baby on purpose with a friend of hers who wanted to be a father.

But the only women I know who had abortions did it for medical reasons, i.E. Deformed fetuses, so this forum would still be necessary because there's people even want to take the choice away in those circumstances.

Very good points.
I have said it before and I will say it again: there is nothing wrong with not wanting to have children!

I think the private hate messages are well over the top. I hope you didn’t reply to them!

You have to understand to ordinary decent people those who advocate the slaughter of innocent children are incredibly sick people who need help and I think you should get some counselling or something. I know your going to bash me for this but I do recommend help of some sort for you and to all women who think dismembering and decapitating little babies is a “normal” and “acceptable” thing to do. Sometimes when people understand just what your advocating they have a tendency to strike out at you, it can not be condoned but its easy to understand why!

Samie you really need to think about why you have become so evil and malicious. You know full well that your exaggerations just make you sound demented. Your view of those who disagrees with you is completely paranoid -- you totally misrepresent things and if you actually believe the things you are saying you are probably dangerous.

good lord!!! How dare you chose not to breastfeed? Don't you know we are baby making machines and not breastfeeding is the devil's work? If you had no intention of allowing your body to do what it was naturally intended to do, you shouldn't have had children. I felt the same way, at least with my first. I tried (unsuccessfully) with my second. My third I actually did it. I considered it a wonderful experience. I did something for her that noone else could and I felt like I bonded a lot easier with her than my other two. But I wouldn't knock anyone for not doing it. Feedings every two hours. Leaky. Sore. Worried about every little thing that enters your body (i'm an avid tea drinker in the morning). Baby would be fussy and gassy when I ate certain foods and it always seemed to be my favorite food too. worried that the child gets enough. Not comfortable feeding in public (or even around some family members). But then your breasts ache if you don't. And they say it's cheeper to breastfeed. Maybe a little but not by much. Breast pads, pumps, vitamins, more groceries because you have to eat all the time, high calorie drinks, juices, nursing pillow, creams for cracked nipples not to mention how exhausted you get from little to no sleep. Don't let anyone make you feel bad for not doing it. It's a personal choice and if you didn't feel comfortable about the baby would have sensed it and it wouldn't have worked.

Samie whatever.
What I said, and I still mean is....If you come onto an abortion debate forum and you do not agree with me then fine. Tell me right here on this post. Or whatever post it was that you disagreed with. Don't pm me and threaten me.
I am not evil and I do not need therapy. You are the one who needs extensive therapy. You obviously have several issues.
Just because I am prochoice does not mean that I have or would ever have an abortion. It also does not mean that I like the idea of it.
It simply means that I am educated and understanding enough to understand that some things are beyond our control and in some instances it is necessary. And if not necessary it is still not my business what another woman feels that she has to do.
People do not have to agree with me, but they have no right to judge me, tell me I am evil and need therapy!

Perhaps they have a point you should at least consider it!

:d :d :d :d

go girl.....!!

I started to say the same when I was about 17...... Every body laughed and gave me knowing looks, "i said that when I was your age" said mum (mother of 4 - bless her) at 22 I told my boyfriend I would only marry him if he understood I never wanted children (married 19 yrs so far) but the drs wouldn't listen so I paid for my own sterilisation at 31... Hurrah. And still today i'm more than happy with my decsion..... In fact, i've friends & family who tell me, in whispered conspiratol tones, they wish they'd also made the same choices.

Welcome, little o!

I had the same thing....Now I have a load of friends who never wanted kids. Strangely, children don't even run in my family...My sister never had any. My father's sister said to me a few years ago that never once in her life did she want to have children. My mother waited until she was in her 30s, and then thought she'd better have some, because it was expected, not because she actually wanted any! What is interesting, in view of the comments made about me, i.E. That I am a she-devil who would abuse, mutilate and torture kid if I did have one, my mother absolutely can't stand other people's kids to this day! She liked me and and my sister just fine though, and hardly beat us up at all and almost never threw us out of airplanes or any other moving vehicles (um, and that was a joke, folks!).

Aside -- do you have a cat?

Samie, stop wasting my time.
How would you like it if people started sending you pm's telling you that you are evil and sick minded because of your opinions and that you (well, I am not going to say what I was told, but a threat anyway)
opinions are just that, and no one has any right to pm me, or you for that matter and threaten.

I would expect it if I were pro choice