Ok teens, here's the bottom line. So you're having sex. First of all, you need to take a good hard look at this. Try and throw away your childish views of this. Sex was always intended for grown ups, so now you are to act grown up. Acting grown up means you need to become responsible. Being responsible for your actions means taking care of your body. Taking care of your body means not having unprotected sex!!!!
if you want to have sex and act all grown up and miss out on part of your childhood then you better get ready to have a child then if you are not going to use protection! It's simple really. Go out and buy a box of freaking condoms. No, they are not glamorous, not glorious, not romantic, but think of the alternatives. Children and disease. Girls, have a little respect for yourself. I wish I could type in all caps but this place doesn't let you, ...If you don't want to have a baby...Use a condom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you find out you are pregnant, it's a huge concern, but you can work through it. You don't have to run out and get rid of the baby. Honest. There are other solutions. You need to find someone and at least talk them out. Then after all the information you get, you still don't want the child and want an abortion that is up to you. But you need to tell your folks, and get educated about babies.

Also you need to know that you don't have to sleep with someone to show them you care. If you are 13 there is no way you could be 'in love' with someone. You don't even know who you are yet. You might feel in love, you might think you're in love, but it's just a new set of feelings coming out that you want to explore. And explore them you should. But not by sleeping with people.

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