This has gotta be a "crazy" post! Omg!
You need help dealing with what????????????????????????Are you preggy? Are you the one having the kid? No! Then you need help dealing with nothing! And your role is: the friend of a guy who has a baby on the way.......Duh.

Lol chanda.... Yea dude I dont think there is much you can do unless you wanna get married to them and help support the baby

Check out the post by jeni that he replied to....Teh one titled I need help now. Lmao!

Lol unless your "buddy buddy" with "both" your friends and feel you have a connection with the baby then I deem you to have no role in its life and if you wanna help buy them some stuff to help out or money or anything I know id like that my 2 cents

Thanks noodle...I am just trying to get some advice on how to help my friends out. I'm just trying to be a great friend to them....Is it better to check up often or let them come to me?

U should really let them come to you or you will seem to intrusive cause I know I hate when anyone constantly checks up on heather and I its real annoying its like yes were fine and dont need anything else now shut up and go away just check up every once and a while when you think you should otherwise just bring some stuff up every once and a while and dont intrude you should be all good

Is it annoying to you guys for friends to ask how the pregnancy is going or how the doc appt was?

No not really thats just common questions I spose just make sure u dont pry into them like asking questions just listen to what they want to tell you and thats all if they want to share they will

U seem like a cool dude, noodle, I appreciate your honesty. I was the first person my friends told about their pregnancy so I feel flattered but also very close to them and want the best for all. Do you have close friends that you told before your parents?

Lmao!

Well in a way yes but it was really not that bad of a secret cause we thought heather was prego before she got prego so our parents already knew then they all got set that she was not prego so it wasent that big of shock but our parents wouldnt believe us it was funny and how come youre on here you must be a real good friend cause if my friends were prego I dont think id spend time on a prego forum for them unless I had nothing better to do

He seems a little "friendly" with his "friends"! Lmao!

I'm just trying to see how others deal with the situation so I can be a better friend. I don't want to interfere in their lives too much but I also don't want them to struggle and fail. So i'm just looking for advice on where to stand. You seem very down to earth noodle, if you lived closer to me, we could be friends. I hope all is well with your baby!

You are sure you are male? Now, she is almost due right....And you are just now trying to figure out how to be a "good" "friend"....Lol~

Chanda,
the last time I checked in the shower, I was a man! Being a good friend will be just as important after the baby is born as it is now, right?

Yea....Lmao!

Oh please!!!!!!! This is nonsense! What kind of lad would find a forum to get advice about helping his friend? What a load of pants!

Lol liz, I love the phrases you use! They are so silly... "what a load of pants!" I dont think ive ever heard that before :d whats it mean? Lol im sorry.... Im just trying to think about it in my head but it just doesnt sound right in my head and keeps confusing me... Hehe sorry im blonde....

Lol maybe I should read better... Heheh I thought it said what a load ~off~ pants... Hehe...