Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
Was Gone For Two Days Posted: 06-08-04 15:58pm
I wasnt on here for awhile because I left
my house with alexander I blew up at my
mom because her and I get in so many
fights and i'm sick and flippin tired of
it so I told her that I was moving out and
she said go right the f---- ahead and I
said is that a promise??And I ended up
staying with my grandma for two
nights....I just thought i'd tell y'all I
kinda wish I was still over there...Cause
its soooo noisy over here...But..Eh..Oh
well
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 06-08-04 16:13pm
I hope your feeling alright and that
things get better. I do think however
that you need to find a safe stable
environment for your son. He will begin
to sense that things are not right and the
yelling and screaming will begin to affect
him. As he gets older you can't just
pickup and leave whenever you want with
him, it can totally disrupt his life and
schedule. Children need stability and
routine. I'm not saying what you did was
wrong, or judging you at all though, some
people just need to get away from things.
Could you not go live with your grandma
for awhile?
Love
tanya
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chrystinmarie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2004 Posts: 128
Posted: 06-08-04 16:14pm
I know that I don't know you or anything,
but I am going to go out on a limb anyway.
You need to make your relationship with
your mom work. You are a mother I presume
and that means that you have to be a
bigger person, even if she is dancing on
your last nerve, bite your tongue and
apologize and then go for a walk or
something to cool off.
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caracook
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2004 Posts: 464 Location: Richmond, KY
Posted: 06-08-04 16:33pm
Blah blah blah I hate when other people
are mature and I know it's the right
thing. Yes she should have a good
relationship with her mom but I know how
hard it can be. I hate my dad, step mom,
and step sister. No one understands what
my life is like (i live on my own so they
really don't). All they ever do is talk
trash about my boyfriend. They all think
I should leave him and it angers me off.
If her mother treats her like caca then
she shouldn't put up with it. What's the
point in trying to make it work with her
mom if her mom won't work at it?
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 06-08-04 16:40pm
I think the only reason to try to make it
work is for the child's sake. If shes
going to have to live there with alexander
then maybe it's worth it. But like you
pointed out we don't know the situation at
all, I don't know how her mother is, all
i'm saying is if she can't live with her
mother then perhaps other living options
would be worth looking into
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chrystinmarie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2004 Posts: 128
Posted: 06-08-04 16:42pm
I know, but since she lives with her mom
it would make things alot less stressful
to just be like 'ya ok your right' and let
it go then to try and make your point and
aggrivate the situation more. My dad
hates my baby's father, and he will talk
trash all the time too, but i've learned
just to nod my head and say ok whatever,
mainly because I am sick of arguing with
him. I know it doesn't work well in all
cases that was just my advice.
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
Posted: 06-08-04 17:04pm
Okay...Well..See I try the bite my tounge
thing...But alright....My boyfriend told
me the same thing until he realised how
s\=-y it is here...I mean I love my mom
dont get me wrong but ...She knows my
password for everything.Even this
forum....She will probably read this right
here because she wants to see what I post
I guess and health forum me out because 'i
hate her'....And what not...She is
constantly in my biz...She never lets me
have anything private at all....So I
dunoh...And she yells at me when I tell
her to shush because the baby is sleeping
or tell the kids to shush because they're
being to loud..Or whatever....And my
sister...Omg my sister..Thats a different
freaking story...
