I hope your feeling alright and that things get better. I do think however that you need to find a safe stable environment for your son. He will begin to sense that things are not right and the yelling and screaming will begin to affect him. As he gets older you can't just pickup and leave whenever you want with him, it can totally disrupt his life and schedule. Children need stability and routine. I'm not saying what you did was wrong, or judging you at all though, some people just need to get away from things. Could you not go live with your grandma for awhile?
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tanya

I know that I don't know you or anything, but I am going to go out on a limb anyway. You need to make your relationship with your mom work. You are a mother I presume and that means that you have to be a bigger person, even if she is dancing on your last nerve, bite your tongue and apologize and then go for a walk or something to cool off.

Blah blah blah I hate when other people are mature and I know it's the right thing. Yes she should have a good relationship with her mom but I know how hard it can be. I hate my dad, step mom, and step sister. No one understands what my life is like (i live on my own so they really don't). All they ever do is talk trash about my boyfriend. They all think I should leave him and it angers me off. If her mother treats her like caca then she shouldn't put up with it. What's the point in trying to make it work with her mom if her mom won't work at it?

I think the only reason to try to make it work is for the child's sake. If shes going to have to live there with alexander then maybe it's worth it. But like you pointed out we don't know the situation at all, I don't know how her mother is, all i'm saying is if she can't live with her mother then perhaps other living options would be worth looking into

I know, but since she lives with her mom it would make things alot less stressful to just be like 'ya ok your right' and let it go then to try and make your point and aggrivate the situation more. My dad hates my baby's father, and he will talk trash all the time too, but i've learned just to nod my head and say ok whatever, mainly because I am sick of arguing with him. I know it doesn't work well in all cases that was just my advice.

Okay...Well..See I try the bite my tounge thing...But alright....My boyfriend told me the same thing until he realised how s\=-y it is here...I mean I love my mom dont get me wrong but ...She knows my password for everything.Even this forum....She will probably read this right here because she wants to see what I post I guess and health forum me out because 'i hate her'....And what not...She is constantly in my biz...She never lets me have anything private at all....So I dunoh...And she yells at me when I tell her to shush because the baby is sleeping or tell the kids to shush because they're being to loud..Or whatever....And my sister...Omg my sister..Thats a different freaking story...