Teen Pregnancy Forum - Oh Crap.. =(

Jasons mom found a condom in his backpack and went off at him, she didnt know that we were having sex. She was yelling for like 30 min. Scott(his stepdad) thankfully was trying to back jason up. Jay told them that he loves me and its not often, but now I think his mom hates me =(, she said I have no respect for my body and that im too young. And stuff like that.. My mom lost it to my dad at 15, and I think that if you have a good relationship and love each other that it's ok. Am I wrong?? Jasons real dad knows and my parents know and im on birthcontrol and we use condoms so its not like were being irresponisble about it. She said she wants to talk to my mom but shes not home so when she does get home ill just tell her to call her. Im really upset for some reason. I hate it when my boyfriends parents dont like me, idk why it just makes me really sad.. And we were starting to get kinda close too.. Oh well, im sure theyll get over it, I hope. Sorry for talking so much I just had to vent a little.. I guess I shouldnt really be surprised, his mom is kinda an overreacter. But do you guys think its wrong that im having sex with jay if we have a great relationship and really love each other?

<3
gaby

Replies(8)

KariM1804

replied on June 5th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Dont worry ive went through the same thing. Im sure his parents will be fine after they get over the initial shock. Its not wrong if ur having sex with him.. As long as ur being very careful and using both kinds of protection. If their reacting that way to sex, imagine pregnancy! That wouldnt be good. But I dont see a problem as long as ur being careful. Yeah its young but still. Im sure they'll end up fine after a bit~

bellax0femmina

replied on June 5th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Yeah, I hope so. Yeah if I did get pregnant he would probobly get kicked out and be dissowned, and thats _after_ they try there best to force me to get an abortion....

<3
gaby

KissyBai912

replied on June 5th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Trust me thats nothing....Dewitts retard mom told my mom about the whole marriage thing, and my mom flipped. She made me spend the night at my neighbors last night because she said she dont trust me alone anymore. Even though she leaves me alone everytime she goes to work. So josh had nowhere to sleep. I had to hold him the entire night. She the stupidest most insensitive health forum ever. Lol. Sorry just a little vent of my own. And now whenever I am on the phone, she's always trying to listen to what i'm saying. I wanna smack her. She said that if I try moving away that she would take josh from me, as if I wouldn't kill her first. Pfffffff. Sorry.....I think i'm done. Don't worry about it. Camerin's mom freaked when she found out I took his virginity and she called me all sorts of names.....And now she's all sweet to me b/c she thought that josh was camerin's and she thought she was gonna be a grandma....Lol. So maybe she will change.

Darling

replied on June 5th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Re: Oh Crap.. =(

bellax0femmina wrote:

jasons mom found a condom in his backpack and went off at him, she didnt know that we were having sex. She was yelling for like 30 min. Scott(his stepdad) thankfully was trying to back jason up. Jay told them that he loves me and its not often, but now I think his mom hates me =(, she said I have no respect for my body and that im too young. And stuff like that.. My mom lost it to my dad at 15, and I think that if you have a good relationship and love each other that it's ok. Am I wrong?? Jasons real dad knows and my parents know and im on birthcontrol and we use condoms so its not like were being irresponisble about it. She said she wants to talk to my mom but shes not home so when she does get home ill just tell her to call her. Im really upset for some reason. I hate it when my boyfriends parents dont like me, idk why it just makes me really sad.. And we were starting to get kinda close too.. Oh well, im sure theyll get over it, I hope. Sorry for talking so much I just had to vent a little.. I guess I shouldnt really be surprised, his mom is kinda an overreacter. But do you guys think its wrong that im having sex with jay if we have a great relationship and really love each other?

<3
gaby

im not surprised that his mother went off on him. I mean from your point of view you love each other and are having sex but to her thats her child (yes definitely a child at 15) having sex with another young girl. That can only mean disaster in a parents mind. Immediately they start thinking your going to get pregnant, become reckless, abandon your responsibilites. It doesnt really make sense and this doesnt happen often however I don't blame her for worrying. I would not encourage or support my 15 year old having sex at all. In fact I would be very upset and disappointed. But if you insist on doing it then at least use protection (like you are doing) and avoid the troubles of having to deal with a "forced abortion" and pregnancy scares.
Tanya

chrystinmarie

replied on June 5th, 2004

Experienced User

Lol i've never taken any guys virginity, but I got the attacks from my parents and my two older sisters when I lost mine. It will be ok, just give her time to cool off.

bellax0femmina

replied on June 5th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Yeah, im sure she will. And darling, thats another thing lol hes not 15, hes going to be 17 in a month or 2!

<3
gaby

caracook

replied on June 5th, 2004

Experienced User

Gaby, I thought you were pregnant. How old are you?

bellax0femmina

replied on June 5th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

15, nope, but im a wierdo and I think I am every month and test everymonth.. But so far no, I just feel like crap. I have a first response and im going to test tomorrow and if its neg. Just wait to see if af comes on wednesday..

P.S- he said he thinks his mom does care anymore, what a nutjob lol..

<3
gaby

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