Joined: 03 Jun 2004 Posts: 3 Location: north london
*first Post* Confused 17 Yr Old! Posted: 06-04-04 07:44am
Ive been very happy with my boyfriend for
over a year now but I thought I was a
little too open minded about three yrs
ago. I dont know any girls who I fancy in
person, in fact if I see a really buff
girl (buff in brittish slang is sexy, btw)
I may get jealous or think good for her,
nice bum. Anyway my bf keeps calling me a
gay woman for it in a jokey way, but when
hes not around I get off to his lesbian
porn. You see I dont know if I would ever
like to be with a girl but it seems very
daunting, but then again it could be
really really fun...Im just a bit nervous
I guess. And anyway I dont want to cheat
on my boyf with a girl because I know he
wouldbe offended, as I was when he cheated
on me. Ive never really had any strong
feeling towards a woman except that some
are really sexy. Would that make me bi?
Thanks for your help and ideas x
|
sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 06-04-04 09:59am
Hey-i understand buff! Lol!
I just think your a normal teenager who is
still getting to know themselves &
their feelings so this doesnt neccesarily
mean that you are bisexual. I have seen
girls and ive thought wow she's gorgeous
but that doesnt make me a lesbian! Its
just appreciating what someone else has
& thats ok-your normal if you think
like that! Your still young so you lots
of time to find out where your feelings
lie but if you think u do like women then
maybe you should mention it to your
boyfriend...He might like it! Lol!
Liz (from brummieland!)
|
Pixie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jun 2004 Posts: 41
Posted: 06-05-04 06:55am
Message erased
Last edited by Pixie on 08-26-04 04:38am; edited 1 time in total
|
sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 06-05-04 10:04am
Hey pixie-lol! I agree with you saying
that its not something she should be
concerned about because I think its
natural that she finds some women
attractive.I think most women do! She
will obviously know for sure if she ever
does have any experiences.
Best wishes,
liz
|
cabbage
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jun 2004 Posts: 3 Location: north london
Posted: 06-05-04 12:44pm
Hi everyone thanks for your responses. I
went out last night to the g-a-y bar soho
and g-a-y estoria, london. I think by
just going out to those kinda places
taught me a lot about myself. Basically I
felt indifferent to attractive girls but
admired their style and guys, I really
think that its important to know the
difference of seeing a sexy looking person
and being sexually attracted to them. Hmm
lots to think about....L8rz
|
sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 06-05-04 13:05pm
Interesting! Well ive been to a few of
the gay clubs up here in birmingham-not to
explore my feelings lol! But with a
friend & her gay friend (this girl is
now living with a man! Just goes to
show!) best wishes with everything!
|
Pixie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jun 2004 Posts: 41
Posted: 06-06-04 18:29pm
Message erased too...Hope and am confident
that the poster read my original posts
before met up with what I call bigiotry
upon admin...On whatever ground-
ignornance!
P.S.
Hope you know all this is recorded!
|
boogaloo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Dec 2004 Posts: 33 Location: kitchener
Hello From Canada- Responding to First Inital Letter Posted: 12-02-04 03:33am
Hey yo--have to say that i'm a little
older than you and your responding gal
pals, but I have a message of my own.
Years ago I found myself attracted to a
gal that i'd meet through a friend
(actually I though she was a he-very cute
n sexy), and when I found out that she
wasn't a he it made me even more curious.
We did have an encounter and it was
wonderful. I was also 17yrs. At the
time--now in my 40's i'm very happily
married with children-- no confusion of my
sexuality. Never regreated it, never
looked back, and never felt that ever
again. Iput it to be 17, full of life,
and lust and love, now it's a sweet
memory. Everything doesn't always have
to be something.
|
crystallight
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Posts: 1 Location: Austrailia
*sigh8 of Relief Posted: 01-20-05 19:06pm
:d I am so happy that I found this forum.
I got to the gym all the time, and I read
fitness mags all the time, and find that I
check out other women all the time. I've
been crazy in love with my boyfriend for
months now and I don't want that to
change, but the last few weeks i've been
stressing over if I was becoming a lesbian
or not. I had trouble trusting my
boyfriend because i've been hurt before,
and actually thought about being a lesbian
cause guys became a waste of my time. I
look at other women's figures, and compare
to mine cause I want to be a figure
competitor. But I by no means have any
attraction to women sexually. I love my
boyfriend with all my heart, but I have
been dying lately cause I was worried that
maybe I was becoming a lesbian. But I
know that's not the case now thanks to
this forum! Yay!
-crystal
|
boogaloo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Dec 2004 Posts: 33 Location: kitchener
Also Hello From Canada Posted: 01-22-05 21:28pm
I agree with everyone else!! Nothing
wrong with finding another female
attractive, particularly if she is. Your
not blind, and being curious about
female/lesbian sex can only make you
better in bed and help you find out what
might be of pleasure to you (hopefully you
can tell your bf to try what you've
seen--he doesn't have to know where you
got the idea from) i'm like the other
canadian fm--in my 40's and have had the
pleasure of experience in my teens. I'm
also married-happy-with children. Relax
and enjoy the movies. Next time get a
porn for both of you, watch it together,
a;nd you'll have a great time, and believe
me, your bf will be glad as not many girls
are as open minded and it will help you
explore the wonderful world of sex and
pleasure. Be young, have fun, but be
safe!!
|
Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Posted: 11-03-05 11:38am
I am happily married but I can get really
turned on by lesbo porn. I once french
kissed a bi- friend (girl) and it didnt
feel much different than kissing a
guy...Lol that was like a looong time
ago.
In real life I dont think I could go
thru with it but in fantasy sexy women are
a turn on. I consider myself strait. I
dont think there is a thing wrong with
homosexuality eithe.
I think your feelings are normal.
