Well hun, my advice is this, your going to have to learn to get along with the baby's daddy! Whether or not you get along or not is not the factor anymore, you need to agree on what is going to happen with that child you are carrying. Now about ed, I would say not to worry about him, if he dissapeared because of some 'trouble' then he is obviously no good for either you or your child! You really don't have to be with anyone, but you need to let you baby's daddy know that he or she is him and you guys need a plan!

Good luck and best wishes
-jessika-

I suggest you talk to ed about all this, it doesn't sound like you both have good communication between each other. Only you can decide whats right for you. You shoul really talk things through with ed.

Hey hun
ouch! What a position to be in. First off, does db know that you're having his baby? If not, you should tell him. Secondly, you have to sit ed down and talk to him, I mean really talk to him. Ask him how he really feels about all of this and if what he said was sincere. Look into his eyes, it'll tell you something hes not. If you know hes telling you the truth and really wants to be with you then just ignore his mom and sister. They're probably just trying to keep you away from him because they know this is a huge life changing responsibility. If he's lying the best thing to do is leave, he's not worth you time because very soon your time will be needed strictly for your baby. Hope this helped. If not, well..I tried

bye

the daddy db knows im havein his baby he is sayin it is not his cuz when I found out that I was pg I was with ed the promlbe with me and ed is im 15 and he is 22 I thik that is y his sis and his mom r tellin he is goin to leave me

Well of course they dont want ed with you, you are only 15!!!! No mother wants to see her 22 year old son with a 15 year old. You have to let him go. He is too old for you. And he already got into some trouble and you havent seen him in 3 weeks. You should be by yourself for a while. You need to talk to the babies dad and tell him its his. Are you sure its his? I think you should get a test. And leave ed alone. He is too old for you and not worth it if the family dont like you.

I agree with nikki....22 and 15....Thats rape and your parents could press charges if they wanted to.

Yup, as always I agree with nikki there!

And to add to this, it's only my opinion and experience, but most 22-year-olds dont go out with 15-year-olds, and when they do, it's not always for a good reason! I personally know some older guys that are going out with younger girls coz first, they cant find girls their age to be interested in them, second, they think it's much easier to get with girls that are at their teens becoz of the lack of maturity, third, younger girls cost less!

It might not be ur case, but like nikki said, it's best to take ed's sis and mom's advice and leave ed alone, if he truly loves u or wants to be with you, he will keeps coming around, but if not, then u know.

Ur baby's daddy doesnt seem to be a very good father either, I mean he questioned you and baby, it shows how much he wants to be involved or take the responsibility. So ...

I am sorry for being a bit negative, but u should consider the worst senario

For one it is not cuz he is older then me and my family like him and part of his family like me it has nothing to do with the age and he don't care if his family like me or not and it is me and him together age is nothing but a number and for those who think he is just with me cuz he can't get anyone older while he came when I met ed he was with a girl and the brock up the day I met him and we were talkin and he was goin to see if other girl she is 23 was still wanted to go out with him about then out of the blue he asked me out a few days later when I seen ed for the first time I loved him and he said that when he walk in the door and seen me sittin there he fell in love with me right then it has nothing to do with my age and his age

But you are still too young. He has nothing to do with someone 15. I dont want to know how you met. But you are already preg with someone elses baby. And you havent seen him in 3 weeks, you and the dad dont get alog, his mom and sister dont like you....Isnt that enough drama for now? I think you should stop with everything and focus on your baby right now. Its not about you anymore or what you want. Its whats best for the baby. And if ed is out in trouble, I think you should leave him, its for the baby.

First of all...Stop thinking of yourself. Think of what is inside you. That baby. You need to start doing what's best for him/her. Stop thinking about..."oh but I luuuuuve him...." forget it. It sounds to me, and I only skimmed the bottoms notes, that he is out of the picture and possibly so is this ed person. Get on with your life...Get some college education (if you are out of hs) or go back to school...Or do something...You...And only you are responsible for this baby now. Oh sure you can try to get child support and you might. It might take awhile though. So in the meantime get yourself set up. Learn some kind of skill while you can and take care of what matters most. :p

Idon't care what u guys think I no not to try to get help from these people who write back to my someone help I love eric he love me and my baby if u guy think we should not be togather cuz of our age bit me taht si all I have to say

I thought his name was ed not eric? Well which is it? Either way sweetie I cant unterstand what you said because you were either angry or didnt take computer classes in high school, or your not in highschool yet...Whichever I couldnt understand you. Look you think its love but it isnt. Your only 15 you dont know what love is yet. Its puppy love. But good luck, your in for a rude awakening if you want to be stubborn like that and dont expect the "ok's" from his side of his family on this relationship because you are still a little girl and he is a man. Plus you havent heard from him in 3 weeks...Dont keep your hopes up darlin.


You can tell your not mature enough because you would have agreed its not about you anymore, its about your baby but you are still thinking about yourself only. Good luck in the future

I think that she was using abbreveations for their names, but I could be wrong! Megan, I understand that you think you are inlove with this guy, but seriously, forget about him! Forget about everything except for what you need to do as a mother for your child! He or she is the most important thing in your life and wondering who you want to date isn't an option anymore! Just get a job, continue high school and lean on your parents for support, not some dead beats!



Good luck and best wishes
-jessika-