My wife is depressed constantly. I feel it is all my fault. Its almost as if I cant do anything right at all. Weve been married about 3 months now and things have gotten worse. All she wants to do is lay on the couch all the time and not go out. She doesnt like going out with friends and now that shes pregnant I think things have gotten even worse. We started arguing alot more and things have left us both upset quite often over little things. Ive tried asking what she wants to do and we could go do it but her answer is always I dont know or I dont care. When I ask if we can go do this or do you want this its always I dont care. Even when it comes to me asking if I can lay next to her or just tonight I asked if she wanted me to change my work schedule to be on the same shift as her. I feel like im loosing my wife. Im at all losses as to what I should do. She refuses to go seek any kind of help. She even says shes knows shes depressed but she doesnt want a fake happy from a pill or go let anyone get invlovled in our personal life, and telling us how to run it. She doesnt give me hugs anymore and she rarely even says I love you unless I say it to her. My only glimmer of life is that at night she always wants me there with her in bed.....To hold her or rub her stomach. Im afraid for our baby as well. Ive been told that depression can cause a miscarraige and ive even expressed that to her. She knows everything thats going on but just doesnt seem to be doing anything about it. Please help........I need all the help I can get right now.

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