Hi!
I am a 48 y.O. With the same thing! I have had it for 4 months. Have had a procto (no hemorrhoids) barium enema (normal) and am scheduled for a colonoscopy after they found 3 miniscule polyps on the procto. The dr said there is no way the discomfort I have could be caused by this.
I have booked a gyn appt. To see if my female parts are falling down or something, and just found a site on coccydynia (coccyx.Org) that could be my problem...As I have had low back pain, and some l-5 s-1 issues in my back.
I feel your pain! Trust me!
Liz