Should I Tell the People That I Love Most?? Posted: 05-31-04 02:50am
Hey yall i'm bisexual and I have been for
awhile a lot of people know except for my
family(except for 1 of my sisters she is
bi too) and 3 of my best friends...I don't
feel ashamed at all because this is me
this is how I am, I want to tell my 3 best
friends but I don't know how, i'm sure
that they would love me the same it's just
I don't want them to feel weird around me.
I'm not going to tell the rest of my
family because they are really really
closed minded and they would'nt
understand. How should I tell my 3 best
friends? I know that if they don't accept
me than they was'nt really my friend in
the first place but I just don't want to
loose them.
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oopoopoop
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Posted: 06-04-04 08:07am
Well, haven't you said elsewhere that not
only do you have a boyfriend, but might be
pregnant? Are you seeing two (or more)
people of different sexes now?
Why do you feel you want to announce being
bisexual, anyway? It seems strange that
"a lot of people know" except your three
best friends. Maybe they already know and
they don't care? It sounds like you are
looking to shock them just to get a
reaction. It doesn't seem like it should
be any of their business, or if it is
something you want to talk about with
them, then just bring it up normally, like
it's no big deal. If you start going out
with a girl, just say, yeah, you're
bisexual, and right now the person you
fancy most is female.
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grotesquepuppy
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Joined: 06 Jun 2004 Posts: 24 Location: Australia
Posted: 06-12-04 09:51am
I think you should tell them, just sit
them down one by one and explain thats you
can't change yourself and that they should
accept you for who you are. If they are
true friends they will accept you. As for
family, they should understand too. Its
hard for me to judge though, I too am bi
and most of my family are very religious
except for my mum and sisters. I didn't
really see the point in telling all of my
family (grandparents etc) because I havn't
actually dated a woman before.
Good luck anyway.
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IloveArica
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Joined: 05 Sep 2004 Posts: 27 Location: Texas
Posted: 09-06-04 18:08pm
Just tell them .. I told mine and only 1
of them wasent cool with it. The rest are
like kayla do I look hot like that ..
They think its cool ... And they love my
girl friend. Chances are one of them is
bi there self.
Kayla
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Super_K
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Joined: 13 Jan 2005 Posts: 42
Posted: 01-16-05 17:25pm
Well...If your friends/family now about
your other sibling that is bi think of how
they reacted to that and base your
decision on that. But you should tell
them becuase they really wouldnt be your
friends if they didne accept it.
