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Q: Abortion
asked by: xxmskaxx on May 30th, 2004
Experienced User
Do you guys have anything that shows how creul an abortion is, so that I could show him. Or do u know any websights I can go to. I just dont think I can do that.And he keeps saying that its the only good option. Thanks <3
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bellax0femmina
replied on May 30th, 2004
Active User, very eHealthy
Hey, I wish you luck in getting him to agree with you.. But just remember that it is your decision only! Nobody elses! I like the site abortiontv.Com, its very good!

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gaby
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xxmskaxx
replied on May 30th, 2004
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I cant seem to get through to him.. He just keeps saying my life cant be over yet im only 18 its the only option. I told him to come to the 1st doctors appt with me, and to hear this little babys heart beat and then still tell me its just a glob. I cant do it. I told him to just turn around and walk away. That I will do this myself that it doesnt have to ruin his life, and he says that he cant do that because he has a concience. So I said if that were the case you wouldnt be able to homicide it. Everytime I say im sorry I cant do it, he yells and says u have to there is no way we can do this. To stop making this a big deal. I just found this sad abortion poem. I just cant do it


abortion
6 weeks old today mommy
a birthday gift for me
a pair of big blue eyes
thru one day I will see.
Where are we going mommy
with the rain splashing down
when it hits the sidewalk
it makes a funny sound.


Bang thru the big white doors
people dressed in green
if they hurt u mommy
just run away and scream.


Help me mommy their tearing me apart
there goes my big blue eyes
there goes my little heart.
I love u mommy believe me I do
but the worst thing is I thought u loved me too.




Has ne one had these problems, I need help I feel like I am so alone. I know that I am not ready for a baby but why is my only other option to be a murderist...
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noodleandshorty
replied on May 30th, 2004
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Hello? Have u ever heard of a.D.O.P.T.I.O.N. ? If u are real...U are not ruining ur life im 17 and my lil girl will be here in less than 3 months. If he cant take it then obviously hes not the one to spend the rest of ur life with or to have a kid with. Its not his decision its urs..Its ur body. Just had to say that because u make it seem like abortion is the only way but its not! Im still goin with my first instincts and sorry if they are wrong but Rolling Eyes
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bellax0femmina
replied on May 30th, 2004
Active User, very eHealthy
/\ shes right, adoption is a very good way to go! Its good for you, the baby, and the adoptive family!

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gaby
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KariM18
replied on May 30th, 2004
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Dont listen to him ,he sounds selfish. The father of my baby did the same thing. Anyhow.. U said u were 17..Is he 18 or were u sayin u were 18? U would regret it so much if u aborted it cuz of him. Theres always adoption. Guys are morons
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lilmama2b_oct04
replied on May 31st, 2004
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That poem made me tear up... Please dont get an abortion just because this guy wants you to. If he cared about your feelings he would listen to you sayin no, right now it seems like hes only thinkin of himself. Just because your havin a baby doesnt mean your life is over, there is adoption. And if you were to keep it, it still isnt ruining your life, it will make things harder, but it will make you a stronger person in the end. You will really regret it if you abort your baby just cuz some guy thinks his life is over. Maybe he should learn to keep his dick in his pants if he just expects the girls he gets pregnant to just abort the baby. Tell him I said to start whackin off if he cant handle the responsibilty that come after sex. Im sorry but guys like this really piss me off... Im 17 and im 24 weeks pregnant, and I couldnt be happier.
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KissyBai912
replied on May 31st, 2004
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I thought u were 17??? Anywhom....That poem gave me shivers.....It made me think of my son....He got a pair pf big blue eyes....Lol. Stuff like that makes me wanna cry for all the lost babies....*sniff*
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xxmskaxx
replied on May 31st, 2004
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I am 17. I asked him what he thinks about adoption and he told me he cant cause in 18 yrs this child will find him and ask him why. I dont understand. Health question something is better? I cant do it.. And I wont. We did this not the baby.
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oopoopoop
replied on May 31st, 2004
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Do not, under any circumstances, let someone else talk you into having an abortion! If you want to have the baby, then that is your absolute choice. If he didn't want to be a father, he should have been more careful, or he should have abstained. It is no longer his choice to make, it is your body and you baby! Adoption is not an easier option, if you think you can look after the baby and would regret giving it away, then there are people who will support you in that. How does your family feel?

The reason for not having an abortion has nothing to do with the nature of the procedure -- you should not be directed to unpleasant images -- the reason for not having an abortion is because you don't want one.
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oopoopoop
replied on June 3rd, 2004
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This is not the debate forum. This is not the place to debate if abortion is right or wrong. It is to give support to women and girls who find themselves in a difficult situation. For someone who doesn't want to have an abortion, that is certainly the best, and only necessary, reason for not having one.
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2ferano
replied on June 3rd, 2004
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Taken care of...
If this post turns into a debate though it will be moved. No big deal either way, but samie you know not to start debates in the abortion forum.
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where_is_the_line
replied on July 22nd, 2004
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You want to have your baby, please have it. There is no good reason not to have the baby. If I fathered a child I don't see how I could ever ask the girl to abort the baby. If she wanted to I would use all my energy to talk her out of it.
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