Okay meg left chanda and I this offline message the day after she came on here and said she was leaving:

chanda and jeni, ok, I didn't really want to bother either of you with this because you shouldn't have to. But I know how you two are and it doesn't matter how I try and keep it to myself, it just won't work. The other day I told jeni I was going to go to the doctor and find out why my cycle was sooo irregular, so I went. I ran a bazillion tests on me and did an ultrasound on my abdomen. Both the test he ran and the ultrasound he did said that both of my tubes are completely obstructed and that is one of the causes for my painful periods, the next is endometriosis. I was fine until he got to the next part, he said the chances of me having a child now are 1 in 100 million. The eating disorder didn't cause this- it was childhood "trauma" is what caused the blockage. Endo is hereditary.Cont..

Well I talked to her last night and she said her and mike got married without all the legal stuff it was more of a commitment ceremony and she is going to go live w/ him and in a couple months they will be getting their own place!!! She isnt at home but she said she will be visiting her mom and that often so she will call one of us and let us kno wat is goin on!!! Oh yah chanda she said she loves u and she will call us in the next week or so!!!!!