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Q: Im Trying Not to Cut...but I Want to
asked by: mommabear16 on May 23rd, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Im sitting right here right now. I'm thinking about not having money. I'm thinking about my babys father who is killing himself slowly. Im thinking of what he said to me a few days ago......"i wish I would have never had alex with you." im thinking that he could be killing himself slowly because I broke up with him just because he was controlling and was mentally abusive...People go through way worse things. Don't get me wrong...I really do love my new boyfriend...But maybe i'm tying him down. I'm also thinking about what i'm going to do with myself. I'm tired of being poor. I'm tired of not having cloths. I'm tired of alexander not having many cloths. I'm tired of being fat. I'm tired of being ugly. I'm tired of dealing with my moms depression. I'm tired with those guys that want to be me up.I'm tired of school. I'm tired of life. Period.

I'm trying not to cut myself. I need a ciggaret instead.....But I don't have any. Patrick would be so dissapointed. I don't know what to do anymore girls. Can someone help?
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KariM18
replied on May 23rd, 2004
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O hun please dont!! For the sake of ur son! Even tho it might just be a little cut, you never know, it could go too far.. And if u start cutting u might not be able to stop! Just keep your baby in ur heart.. He needs you to be here for him. He needs you to show him that life is worth living and that life is a happy thing and that the material isnt what matters. Even tho hes young, kids can sence these things. Dont focus on what u dont have. Focus on what u do have which im sure u could still write a list! Family.. Friends.. (like us!) and a beautiful son! Those things are worth so much more then clothes and money! Please just take care of yourself!

O yes, and also. Dont sit there and get down on yourself and tell yourself that your ugly etc.. Your not..The more u tell ur self that u are, the worse off u will be and feel. Just think about all the people that dont even have what weve got~ some people dont have legs, or are terribly burned, or have completely distorted figures and faces. I know that might all sound stupid but u know its true!
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theoryofthought
replied on May 23rd, 2004
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Love, energy, growth, beautiful, long blonde hair, precious baby boy, the love you give him, the life you gave him, the future you will give him. Sweetie you have soo many things to live for! You have your son’s future in your hands! You hold all the cards! You are so bright and beautiful and have many things to be happy and grateful for! I hope things get better for you.

Karlee
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smith8500
replied on May 23rd, 2004
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Hey
They are all right! You have so much to live for and your son needs you! You are such a great person and such a beautiful one! Keep smiling. You can make it through this! You are an awesome person!
Love,
chanda
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KariM18
replied on May 24th, 2004
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How r u doing?? Any better??
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