|It's all about revenge, my friend. And i'm not talking about any violent type of revenge, mind you. What you've gotta do now is give yourself a little confidence and physical makeover. Buy some new clothes, go to the beach and/or gym and cut your hair. Buy yourself a new cologne and sooner or later some little bee will be buzzing round your stamen. Be happy. Be happy and busy and watch how she comes crawling back. By that time, you'll already have forgotten her and be the better for it to boot.
Oh, but I must confess, the title of your post is a little offensive. Men and women both have equal capabilities to lie and deceive. To dump it all on the poor ladies is just plain unfair. Ruby
|Couple of weeks ago my girlfriend dumped me. We'd been going out for 7/8 months - haven't been bothered about it, until a few days ago when I found out why. The week leading up to the break up, she had been spending a lot of time with one of her male friends from work, and they kept seeing each other a bit. I tried to convince myself that thinking something is going on, is me being paranoid. Well...I wasn't paranoid. She didn't even have the guts to tell me that it is the reason she left, but still said, 'i wanted to meet you in person to do this, because I respect you'. She gave a load of crap about lack of communication - which was entirely her fault, and how she was different around me i.E. Nagging and saying that I don't deserve it - which is just caca. And said that she still loves me - which really angers me off because she's lying, or trying to make me act warm to her whilst she simultaneously gets her way with her new boyfriend. I feel entirely rejected, there is nothing I can do to feel any better about myself. We've probably said about two words to each other since, but I hate her because I never expected her to be such a manipulative, deceiving liar. She is all happy with her new boyfriend, and I can't do anything, even getting a new girlfriend might be stupid as i'm going to university in september. I don't know what this new guy has that I don't. In fact I know this guy quite well and he's ok, but it still angers me off. It's as if she has won the war and i'm just a loser with no hope. My perception of girls and relationships has changed a lot. I feel like I wanna get a girlfriend, have sex with them, and then dump them, in order to get my revenge on womankind. Everytime I just picture her and her new boyfriend, it's like being punched in the face. I really need to sort my life out and pass exams etc. How can I move on?|
|Men have an awkward nature. We just want warmth, intimacy, sex, closeness. Women have an evil nature, they have alterior motives almost all the time. Also, most women never want any man who wants them.
If I had a dime for every time a girl said to me, "john, you are so good to me, so nice, but..."
girls want men who treat them bad. It is a fact of life, and there is no getting around it. I think that is why women create problems in marriages where they needn't be, so they can have that drama.
Women are cold, manipulative, scheming people with an evil nature. It is a fact. We want to be close to them, we have a natural need to be close to them, but so much time is wasted on getting over these barriers that they set up.