Welcome, angieg1974!
Lupus is a difficult disease to accurately diagnose. It can take a long time...And may take more than one doctor. It also may not be lupus. There are many autoimmune diseases out there that mimic lupus, but are not lupus.
It took me 7 years to be diagnosed. I had symptoms before, during and currently.
There are some things you can do to help the process along.
1) keep a very detailed diary.
2) keep a copy of all your labs and doctor visits. If you live in the us, you have the right to your records...
3) get a second opinion from a specialist. That, too, is your right.
4) when you next go to the doctor (gp and/or specialist) have 10 questions ready for them. Don't leave until they are answered.
This is just the tip of the iceberg, but I do hope it helps.
Hugs,
ladybrannon