Hi “marat”,
your story sounds so much like my own, my ptosis eyelid is the worst thing that has ever happen to me, I was born this way. Had many operations to correct this problem, but alas, my eyelid still drops. I hate my life because of my eye. When I was younger (school age) the other kids made fun of me, I was put in "special education classes" my eyelid made me look to others like I was retarded or something, I so diligently had to prove myself, that I was a intelligent person. The struggle to graduate with high honors from both high school, and college was an up hill battle all the way. I, like you my russian friend, am now nearly 30 years old, and still to this day, have people asking me “what is wrong with your eye”, from job interviews, to just meeting people on the street, that’s the question of the day in my world. I have to work more hard, shine more brighter to be noticed in my career, luckily I choose the filed in art, where my art speaks for me, my designs and catchy logos don’t carry the sigma of my eyelid problem, which has been my enemy for so long. My prayers go unanswered, when it comes to having pretty eyes (heck, I would settle for just normal looking eyes that look the same). I have many things in my life, (nice career, own house, car, and my dog-as he never asked about my eyelid), but the loneliness I have suffered because of my eyelid truly saddens me. I am really bad at giving eye contact (looking at people when in conversations), as I feel so self conscious about my eye. I have had boyfriends, but my relationships seem to end in hardship because of my self-loathing when I think about my eyelid (it not like I am bad looking, I just would look so much better if it were not for my eyelid). I know that things could have been worst, but I wish I was dealt a better, prettier hand in life. I wish you the best of luck finding your treatment, my prayers have not seemed to work for me, maybe they will for you. Sincerely, your american friend.