I've been talking to this guy for awhile now and I really really like him, we've slept together and everything...That made me like him even more. He makes me really happy and he makes me laugh...Well he found out today that his ex g/f is pregnant...I know this sounds selfish but i'm really scared that this is going to mess up me and him. He told me that he don't want to be with her, but he will take care of the baby...I respect that. I'm just real scared that this will effect what me and him have...Please give me your advice?????
I think you should be careful about this relationship. you said that his ex-girlfriend is pregnant. Is it possible that he is still seeing her and you at the same time? I know you really really like this guy. If you two have a committed relationship and good communication, then this should work out fine, though his ex is pregnant. If you are both committed to this relationship, all of these issues should work themselves out. Is the ex trying to get back in his life again? I think these are questions you should ask him. Does he have other children? I hope things work out between you and him. As long as he's honest with you about him and the ex, then it shouldn't mess up what you and him have. Of course, when the baby's born things will change some, but a lot depends on the type of relationship he has with the ex and if she wants to be with him. Also you said he found out "today" that she's pregnant. When is she due? Also, how did you meet this guy? I hope everything works out. :d
Hey yall, well I talked to him about everything and he told me he does'nt want to be with her. I actually beleive him, but I have some bad news I think I am pregant also, by either him or my ex, but...I have'nt told him, and i'm not going to unless i'm totally sure that I am. But thank you guys for your advice.