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Q: Kinda Mad....
asked by: lilmama2b_oct04 on May 13th, 2004
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Ok a while ago I was doing laundry and I found these socks and I asked kevin if they were his and he looked at me weird and said no, I was like well they arent mine so whos are they? He told me they must be a pair from when I was staying at kari's house and I ran out of clean socks so I borrowed some of hers... Well I remember what those socks looked like and this pair wasnt at all like the ones I got from kari... Well today I was doing laundry again, and I find *another* pair of these socks, but these werent dirty, and they were still folded and everything... Well the thing is, they werent folded how I fold socks! And there is no way I could have accidently folded them that way cuz it isnt anything like how I do it. Im so pissed off. Kevin is probably having some health question spend the nights when im at my moms house. But then again I dont know if im over-reacting. I just dont know what to do... I dont even know if I should confront kevin on this. I mean its kinda stupid. Im gonna ask him were a pair of socks came from... But then again I dont think it would really be much difference for me to find her underwear... Would it? Im sorry this is long.. I just need to vent.
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nikki_caro
replied on May 13th, 2004
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Well do you do laundry in a laundry mat where other people use them too or is this your own personal laundry facility? Cuz if other people use it too then it could have been left there but if not then why would there be someone elses socks? I dont think some chick would leave her socks behind though. Thats kinda dumb. But are you sure they are girls socks? Thats something weird to find, I just say question it again. Because I know I was about to do laundry and I found some funky socks I know id be questioning it too. So just ask him again?
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lilmama2b_oct04
replied on May 13th, 2004
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Yea they were girls socks... We wash at a laundry mat and then dry at home... I always check the washers before I put my clothes in them because who knows a could kid put something in that washer and it could ruin all my clothes...I dont understand how I found two pairs of socks, the same kind at seperate occasions... Yea I know thats pretty stupid to leave your socks behind, but our bedroom is currently off limits cuz they tore down the ceiling... Well anyways our house is a mess and I could understand loosing some clothes in it... We had a couch dedicated to our dirty laundry lol...
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nikki_caro
replied on May 13th, 2004
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Well then just talk to him about it because that sounds pretty weird unless those socks have been there in that couch so maybe that could have been it, but ask him again anyways.
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lilmama2b_oct04
replied on May 13th, 2004
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Oh yea I forgot to mention I believe I found the first pair before my washer broke... I think im gonna wait to ask him about until we are already fighting... Why have two fights when you can combine them into 2, cuz I know when I ask him hes gonna start health question bout how I dont trust him and blah blah blah....
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nikki_caro
replied on May 13th, 2004
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Well how are you supposed to trust him when you are finding socks that arent yours! Thats like finding a bra in an a cup when your a c. Im sure he wouldnt like finding boxers that arent his! If you want to wait then fine, but then he might say "well why did you wait so long" and blah blah, guys are alot of the time air heads. And they dont change! Lol. Look at me, my hubby is 28! Lol well I hope he has some good reasons when you ask him!
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lilmama2b_oct04
replied on May 13th, 2004
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I dont know, I guess kinda to use it as something against him in a fight. And then to make it kinda seem like I trust him cuz I didnt jump down his throat right away, but then when he pulls his "oh your probably cheatin on me while im at work, why wouldnt you you sit home alone all day and you never give me any blah blah blah" and then I can be like "health question your probably cheatin on me, why am I finding girls socks in my laundry?"... But I guess I could still confront him on it. I dont know. Lol if I break up with him im gonna do it before he pays off my grandma for that stereo, cuz its mine til her pays her off...Lol then I will have my pimp health question stereo and collect child support from that health question...
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insurancegirl
replied on May 13th, 2004
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theoryofthought
replied on May 13th, 2004
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Well you maybe over reacting, but maybe not, if it happens again where you find an article of clothing that doesn’t belong to you, I say set up a camera when your gone. I know that many of you probably disagree, but if, and that’s a big “if”, he is cheating on you, not knowing about it is putting you and your baby at risk. So just see what happens with it and talk with him some more and find out whats going on. Are you sure that there isn’t someone that you know of that stays with him occasionally, like his sister, if he has one, or some sort of relative or any of your relatives that may have just been hanging out and left stuff there?
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smith8500
replied on May 13th, 2004
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Hey
I'd wanna know where they came from! Girl, ask him!
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noodleandshorty
replied on May 13th, 2004
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April just ask him...I know id ask ryan whos socks they were..It really doesnt hurt to say "whos are these?" if he gets pissed then maybe somethin is up...I know when ppl blow up around here they are hidin somethin at least in my family
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lilmama2b_oct04
replied on May 13th, 2004
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He doesnt have a sister, no relatives come here, its just me and him that live here, nobody stays here, or comes over with a clean pair of socks lol, the only time somebody would be able to stay the night without me knowing would be when im at my moms... Im gonna ask him whos socks they are when my friends leaves... Hes not home right now, hes giving blood and my best friend is coming over and I dont want to start something when shes here. But yea im also gonna ask him who jenny- 716-2982 is..... We dont know any jennys, and he wrote the number with my purple marker that I had put away but I had it by my notebook when I left cuz I wrote him a note, but yea theres some girls number in there. Oh health question if hes cheatin on me he is gonna get health question beat! And he really is gonna regret it cuz hes "so happy about the baby" and I aint lettin him see my kid if hes been risking me and baby gettin some std.... I think I might leave him anyways. I found some other things that need some questioning... Like a couple porno mags, after I found one, I asked him if there were anymore, and I asked him on what and he said on our relationship and on the baby... Health question that, hes been lying to me, health question that health question... Ooohh I cant wait til amber leaves tonight... Health question im gonna give him hell. Hes gonna have to learn not to mess around with a health question with raging hormones.
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noodleandshorty
replied on May 13th, 2004
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Take it easy dont get to wired up its not good for the baby Smile remmeber ur lil one can hear u...I think...Lol... I know mine can..Lol
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nikki_caro
replied on May 13th, 2004
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I say you call that jenny and be like oh im his sister how do you know him?? Then beat him down!
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lilmama2b_oct04
replied on May 13th, 2004
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Lol nikki your so funny.... Im just gonna ask him who it is and then whatever he says im gonna probably call her and be like who are you and what the health question
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nikki_caro
replied on May 13th, 2004
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No dont ask him, he will lie and stuff, call first. Give me the number ill call. Because if you catch her off guard and him too then hes s.O.L. Big time. Lol but no beating I forgot you were pregnant lol. I got too excited. I know if it was me though, id take me and my belly and beat some health question!!! Kung fu style hehe. Unless I lose my balance or somethin lol
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mommabear16
replied on May 13th, 2004
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Yeah....I'd be beating some health question.
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smith8500
replied on May 13th, 2004
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Hey
Oh lord! Keep me posted!!! I so gotta know how it goes!
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lilmama2b_oct04
replied on May 13th, 2004
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Ok I couldnt until amber went home last night so I confronted him about the porn and we didnt fight at all (like the other day we fought bad about it). But yea lets just make this story short... I pretty much got him wrapped around my pinky... And today is his payday. I am going shoppin! Lol and then spending the weekend out at my moms with amber and gonna go visit a couple of my old friends. Hmm I wanna set up a camera in here but I dont have one... Ive got a tape recorder, but that only records for so long. Lol I will have a friend spy on him or something. Now who wants to call jenny? Lol I will call and hang up and thats about it. Lol I dont want to talk to her, it might be somebodys girlfriend and kevin is supposed to call her cuz kevin has two friends in jail and they always have messages from other guys to their girlfriends and then kevin calls them and tells them the message, but there wasnt a message next to the number like normal... So I dont know.
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smith8500
replied on May 13th, 2004
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Hey
Did you ask about the socks? I'll call her~ girl, call her and find out what??? Is going on!
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