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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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I Wanna Move Out.....
Posted: 05-12-04 22:47pm
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Hey you guys. I think I want to move out.
I am just getting way too stressed out
here. And when i'm stressed, I get
frustrated, and I don't wanna be
frustrated because I have an anger
managment problem and I don't in any way
wanna end up taking it out on josh, I am
sure I wouldn't, but you know what stress
does to people. Larry act like they dont
want me here. They disrespect me and
treat me like caca. And I am tired of my
mom doing nothing but complaining. She is
putting so much stress on me. And she is
always belittling me. She is always
saying "i go out and bust my ass for you
and your kid and your dog, and you can't
get off your a$$ and do caca" because I
cant take care of me, josh, the pups, my
school work, and all the house work.
Frankly, I dunno anyone who can. I really
appreciate everything she's done, but no
one helps me out around here. All she
does is sleep when she some home. Larry
and logan don't clean or anything. This
house used to be immaculate, now it's
really starting to get dirty and I don't
like it but I have more important things
to do. I just can't handle staying here
anymore. Dewitt's mom has already offered
to let me move in, and I think I want to.
And if anything were to go wrong, I have
lots of family right there in that town.
I just don't want my mom to hate me but
she is never gonna understand that I just
can't stand her the way she is right now.
Does anyone know of any laws that would
permit me to move out without her
permission? I know if I got married I
could, but I really don't wanna have to do
that. I don't want to be married at 15.
So I am hoping there is something that can
be done. I need to get out, but I don't
want it to be considered running away so
that they don't take josh away. If it
weren't for josh I would be packed up and
gone already, but I have to make sure
everything I do is perfectly legal because
I can't stand the thought of someone
taking him away from me.......Anyone have
any advice???
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 05-12-04 23:00pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-22-04 15:54pm; edited 1 time in total
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 05-12-04 23:07pm
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Yeah I have told her time and time
again......She's always sayin she'ss talk
to him or that she's really thinkin about
leavin him too. But the next day its all
kissy kissy. I incredibly hate it. I
can't exactly be emancipated because that
makes me financially responsible for
myself, which I can't do. I ave a roof to
live under, but I dunno if that is
emancipation exactly. Dewitt starts his
second job today. He is working in a
factory now also. He works from 5 at
night till 2 in the morning. I know I can
get married without their consent, and
that gets me out of here, but I really
dont't wanna be married at 15 if there is
any other way. I wanna be married some
day, not now. So talking to my mom is
basically out of the question. She won't
allow it. She says she loves me and wants
me here but her actions and attitude say
otherwise ya know? I mean I love my mom,
but I just cannot stand living with her
anymore. What authorities would I talk
to? I called my family support worker and
left her a message to see if she knows
anything that could help me out.....I just
hate waiting around for phone calls. So
i'm just wondering if anyone else knows
anything.
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sweetsuzi
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2004
Posts: 831
Location: Bonny Scotland
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Posted: 05-12-04 23:07pm
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Hello,
since im from the uk im pretty sure the
law is differant.
But young mothers can apply for housing
through the social work. Some cases girls
get themselves pregnant just so they can
apply. But I think you would have to
prove this would be better off for you and
the baby
but probably your "family" home will 10
times better than any house or flat they
could help you out with.
Love soozxxx
hope someone can give you some better
information or give you some contacts.
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sweetsuzi
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2004
Posts: 831
Location: Bonny Scotland
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Posted: 05-12-04 23:10pm
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You should phone the local social work
department, theres people there to help
you. There might be some scheme there to
help young mothers. Your mum seems to
have her own problems.
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 05-12-04 23:24pm
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Hey you guys I just thought of something,
it's horrible, but I am pretty sure it
would get me out of here. My mom uses
marijuana. Frequently. Like on a daily
basis I would say. She tries to hide it
but she spends too much time in the
bathroom and alwaysd reeks of it even
though she tries to cover it with perfume.
Suzi thanks, but I have a place to stay.
I would be living with my son's father.
But I need to find a way to get out of
this house legally. I hate to do it to my
mom, but she's got a lot of problems and I
think marijuana is probably what makes her
so moody and angry. She has problems with
depression too. Do you guys think I
should use this fact to my benefit or is
it too manipulative??? I really want out
of this house.
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 05-12-04 23:27pm
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1 - a parent/child relationship can be
terminated by a florida court.
2 - anyone who knowingly helps a runaway
minor without first alerting the law
enforcement or the minors parents (if the
parent/child relationship has not been
terminated) is guilty of a first degree
misdemeanor.
That's all I can find right now.
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sweetsuzi
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2004
Posts: 831
Location: Bonny Scotland
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Posted: 05-12-04 23:29pm
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Ah ok well just talk to your mum she might
feel the same way.
If you start telling people about your mum
smoking it could get her in trouble you
might not have choice about leaving since
you are underage.
What is the law for smoking marijuana in
america???
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 05-12-04 23:31pm
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It is illegal except when prescribed by a
doctor for medicinal purposes, like cancer
treatment. Posession, purchase, sale,
and consumption are all illegal.
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sweetsuzi
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2004
Posts: 831
Location: Bonny Scotland
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Posted: 05-12-04 23:35pm
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My fiances mum uses it to help her sore
joints!
But posession of it in any case medicinal
or not it is illegal here, but your
allowed to have or buy the seeds. Just
not use it or grow it, it's a stupid rule.
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 05-12-04 23:37pm
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We have a similar, but backwards, thing
for esctasy. You're not allowed to
purchase or possess it, but you can't get
in trouble for using it!
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lilmama2b_oct04
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004
Posts: 1970
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 05-13-04 00:09am
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You can take a hit of weed and blow it in
a cops face and he cant do nothing about
it unless he can find it on you... Which
would be impossible if you swallow the
roach.
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gypy04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2004
Posts: 398
Location: florida
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Posted: 05-13-04 00:41am
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Yeah once you have a baby your
automatically emancipated. But you can
go to your local family court and ask for
the paper work.
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 05-13-04 00:44am
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Thats not what they have been telling me,
they told me some crap like I am
emancipated while I am pregnant, but not
after I have the baby. Like, what office
or department would I call about this
paperwork???
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lilmama2b_oct04
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004
Posts: 1970
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 05-13-04 00:45am
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Wow I didnt know you were automaticaly
emancipated when you have a kid...
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 05-13-04 00:49am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-22-04 15:54pm; edited 1 time in total
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gypy04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2004
Posts: 398
Location: florida
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Posted: 05-13-04 00:49am
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Just go to the family court. And go to
the information desk and say you want the
papers that say your an emanicipated
minor.... Who was telling you that???
Some states are different but not that
different. I know in ny there is no such
thing as an emanicipated minor anymore
(meaning you don't need any paperwork).
Or you can call your local family court
and just ask them how to go about getting
emanicipated.. They will probably tell
you to go down to the court house. I
went through all this years and years
ago... It was like 5 years ago so check
it out.
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 05-13-04 00:55am
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I cant get to the courthouse though.
Thats my problem. I called a legal advice
clinic and an attorney is supposed to call
me at 2:30 and talk. And jen I do wanna
get married, just not at 15 ya know? I
wanna save that as a last resort.
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 05-13-04 00:57am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-22-04 15:55pm; edited 1 time in total
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gypy04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2004
Posts: 398
Location: florida
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Posted: 05-13-04 01:00am
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Unfortunately you are 15 years old.
Technically you still have to go to
school... Make sure you do go to
school... Or else you could be put on
probation. Especially if you do get
emanicipated. Good luck!!
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