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Q: I Wanna Move Out.....

asked by: KissyBai912 on May 12th, 2004

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Hey you guys. I think I want to move out. I am just getting way too stressed out here. And when i'm stressed, I get frustrated, and I don't wanna be frustrated because I have an anger managment problem and I don't in any way wanna end up taking it out on josh, I am sure I wouldn't, but you know what stress does to people. Larry act like they dont want me here. They disrespect me and treat me like caca. And I am tired of my mom doing nothing but complaining. She is putting so much stress on me. And she is always belittling me. She is always saying "i go out and bust my ass for you and your kid and your dog, and you can't get off your a$$ and do caca" because I cant take care of me, josh, the pups, my school work, and all the house work. Frankly, I dunno anyone who can. I really appreciate everything she's done, but no one helps me out around here. All she does is sleep when she some home. Larry and logan don't clean or anything. This house used to be immaculate, now it's really starting to get dirty and I don't like it but I have more important things to do. I just can't handle staying here anymore. Dewitt's mom has already offered to let me move in, and I think I want to. And if anything were to go wrong, I have lots of family right there in that town. I just don't want my mom to hate me but she is never gonna understand that I just can't stand her the way she is right now.

Does anyone know of any laws that would permit me to move out without her permission? I know if I got married I could, but I really don't wanna have to do that. I don't want to be married at 15. So I am hoping there is something that can be done. I need to get out, but I don't want it to be considered running away so that they don't take josh away. If it weren't for josh I would be packed up and gone already, but I have to make sure everything I do is perfectly legal because I can't stand the thought of someone taking him away from me.......Anyone have any advice???

Replies(29)

insurancegirl

replied on May 12th, 2004

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KissyBai912

replied on May 12th, 2004

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Yeah I have told her time and time again......She's always sayin she'ss talk to him or that she's really thinkin about leavin him too. But the next day its all kissy kissy. I incredibly hate it. I can't exactly be emancipated because that makes me financially responsible for myself, which I can't do. I ave a roof to live under, but I dunno if that is emancipation exactly. Dewitt starts his second job today. He is working in a factory now also. He works from 5 at night till 2 in the morning. I know I can get married without their consent, and that gets me out of here, but I really dont't wanna be married at 15 if there is any other way. I wanna be married some day, not now. So talking to my mom is basically out of the question. She won't allow it. She says she loves me and wants me here but her actions and attitude say otherwise ya know? I mean I love my mom, but I just cannot stand living with her anymore. What authorities would I talk to? I called my family support worker and left her a message to see if she knows anything that could help me out.....I just hate waiting around for phone calls. So i'm just wondering if anyone else knows anything.

sweetsuzi

replied on May 12th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Hello,

since im from the uk im pretty sure the law is differant.
But young mothers can apply for housing through the social work. Some cases girls get themselves pregnant just so they can apply. But I think you would have to prove this would be better off for you and the baby
but probably your "family" home will 10 times better than any house or flat they could help you out with.

Love soozxxx

hope someone can give you some better information or give you some contacts.

sweetsuzi

replied on May 12th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

You should phone the local social work department, theres people there to help you. There might be some scheme there to help young mothers. Your mum seems to have her own problems.

KissyBai912

replied on May 12th, 2004

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Hey you guys I just thought of something, it's horrible, but I am pretty sure it would get me out of here. My mom uses marijuana. Frequently. Like on a daily basis I would say. She tries to hide it but she spends too much time in the bathroom and alwaysd reeks of it even though she tries to cover it with perfume. Suzi thanks, but I have a place to stay. I would be living with my son's father. But I need to find a way to get out of this house legally. I hate to do it to my mom, but she's got a lot of problems and I think marijuana is probably what makes her so moody and angry. She has problems with depression too. Do you guys think I should use this fact to my benefit or is it too manipulative??? I really want out of this house.

linuxChique

replied on May 12th, 2004

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1 - a parent/child relationship can be terminated by a florida court.
2 - anyone who knowingly helps a runaway minor without first alerting the law enforcement or the minors parents (if the parent/child relationship has not been terminated) is guilty of a first degree misdemeanor.

That's all I can find right now.

sweetsuzi

replied on May 12th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Ah ok well just talk to your mum she might feel the same way.

If you start telling people about your mum smoking it could get her in trouble you might not have choice about leaving since you are underage.

What is the law for smoking marijuana in america???

linuxChique

replied on May 12th, 2004

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It is illegal except when prescribed by a doctor for medicinal purposes, like cancer treatment. Posession, purchase, sale, and consumption are all illegal.

sweetsuzi

replied on May 12th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

My fiances mum uses it to help her sore joints!
But posession of it in any case medicinal or not it is illegal here, but your allowed to have or buy the seeds. Just not use it or grow it, it's a stupid rule.

linuxChique

replied on May 12th, 2004

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We have a similar, but backwards, thing for esctasy. You're not allowed to purchase or possess it, but you can't get in trouble for using it!

lilmama2b_oct04

replied on May 13th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

You can take a hit of weed and blow it in a cops face and he cant do nothing about it unless he can find it on you... Which would be impossible if you swallow the roach.

gypy04

replied on May 13th, 2004

Experienced User

Yeah once you have a baby your automatically emancipated. But you can go to your local family court and ask for the paper work.

KissyBai912

replied on May 13th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Thats not what they have been telling me, they told me some crap like I am emancipated while I am pregnant, but not after I have the baby. Like, what office or department would I call about this paperwork???

lilmama2b_oct04

replied on May 13th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Wow I didnt know you were automaticaly emancipated when you have a kid...

insurancegirl

replied on May 13th, 2004

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gypy04

replied on May 13th, 2004

Experienced User

Just go to the family court. And go to the information desk and say you want the papers that say your an emanicipated minor.... Who was telling you that??? Some states are different but not that different. I know in ny there is no such thing as an emanicipated minor anymore (meaning you don't need any paperwork). Or you can call your local family court and just ask them how to go about getting emanicipated.. They will probably tell you to go down to the court house. I went through all this years and years ago... It was like 5 years ago so check it out.

KissyBai912

replied on May 13th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

I cant get to the courthouse though. Thats my problem. I called a legal advice clinic and an attorney is supposed to call me at 2:30 and talk. And jen I do wanna get married, just not at 15 ya know? I wanna save that as a last resort.

insurancegirl

replied on May 13th, 2004

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gypy04

replied on May 13th, 2004

Experienced User

Unfortunately you are 15 years old. Technically you still have to go to school... Make sure you do go to school... Or else you could be put on probation. Especially if you do get emanicipated. Good luck!!

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