Is your wife depressed and on medication for it? Because if she's on celexa she probably doesn't have any sexual feelings at all and that has nothing to do with you. It's the drug. As far as your marriage is concerned I take it you are the bread winner and she stays home and looks after the kids? It sounds to me you need to put some romance back into your life. Maybe ask your wife out on a date or take her away for a weekend. But I wouldn't pressure her for sex, just give her your love and understanding. You could even write her a letter and reaffirm your love to her and let her know you are there for her through this rough time and how you see her. My husband has also been going through hell. I'm the depressed one and hate that I don't want sex, it hurts me as much as it hurts him. But we communicate and try to talk through it. His hugs and kisses help alot and knowing he is there for me is a big help. My husband told me this week that he hasn't seen any improvement in me for quite a while and he thinks therapy would help and so do i. This helped me a great deal because when things aren't getting any better and you don't know now I can tell my doctor a few more things that need to be addressed. I hope I have helped you, talking really helps..

I would say that both of you need to seek therapy together and apart. There has to be a reason why she does not feel the same about you. Try doing little things for her that she may not expect. Maybe you need to ignite the flame again. Keep trying and don't give up. Do you know a minister that you can talk to? Good luck.