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mexicanwoman

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My Husband Is Impotent?
Posted: 09-15-03 16:20pm

Hi,
my husband is 38 yrs old, we are just married, we never had sex before marriage because I am old fashioned catholic, and my husband has a small penis, that grows when is erected, the problem is that he can not stay erected for a long time just 4 a few minutes this happen often, before we can do a sexual intercourse, or sometimes his penis grows as to going be erected, but it is not hard, it stays soft, so is impossible to have a sexual intercourse often... And apart his sexual desire is not strong.
The physical appareance of my husband is "boyish"... All this could be a problem from born ,psychologic problem, a hormonal problem, is he really impotent???
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bowhunter

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Posted: 09-15-03 18:07pm

I had the same problem, but I am in my 50's, I would suggest you suggest to him to see a doctor, they can check hormone levels, I now use viagra, again have him see a doctor, nothing to be ashamed Embarassed about, guys always seem to want to wait, so get on his butt and get him moving. Good luck
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nikki_caro

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Posted: 09-15-03 18:07pm

Is he concerned about this as you are? Just a question. But you need to get him "up" and in the mood. This is on your part. Are you helping him out or just waiting for him to get erect? If you dont want to see a doctor on this just yet then make sure he gets healthy and try new "tricks" to get him in the mood. Maybe a romantic style or maybe a kinky style. You know rose petals and love music...Or some sex toys. If nothing works, make an appt with a doc. They will help him. Good luck!
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abbott

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Posted: 12-31-07 03:43am

Bow hunter, just wondering, how much does Viagra cost?
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fiona05

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Posted: 01-07-08 10:35am

viagra is very expensive. i think i remember it being £60 ($120) for four tablets when it was prescribed by the doctor. however it can be found online much cheaper than that. it has many generic equivalents which do exactly the same thing and are actually affordable. i would not recommend buying anything though until he has been seen by a doctor. ED can often be a symptom of other underlying problems or illnesses. is your husband diabetic, for example? does he take any kinds of medication?

it could be a physical issue or equally it could be that he is feeling pressured to perform. perhaps this isn't something you discuss, but does your husband masturbate? if he masturbates and is able to successfully maintain an erection and reach orgasm through masturbation then it is NOT a physical problem but a psychological one. if you haven't talked to him about this already then you need to talk with him! perhaps he is just anxious because he is inexperienced and is afraid of not being able to please you.

me and my partner do have experience of using viagra and cialis, we have bought them online and i know a bit about them but i wouldnt want to share my advice with you without you first having discussed this all with your husband and asked him what he thinks the problem might be, and you both go to the doctor to rule out the possibility that he has an underlying physical problem. sex drugs should only be a last resort!

kind regards.
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Gwen27

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I had the same problem
Posted: 01-16-08 16:33pm

I feel for what mexicanwoman was going through. After 7 years of marriage my husband used to rarely approach me for sex and often turned down sex from me (even oral) saying he had no desire because he was stressed from his job. We started taking Cialis (bought it online) and it works.
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boling7168

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Posted: 02-29-08 18:08pm

i have a small one to but it works with cialas . i is very weak with out it. give it a try.
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herbal07

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Location: London, England
It is possible he suffers ED
Posted: 05-27-08 08:27am

It worthwhile giving some supplements a try. Cialis, Herbal Cialis like Amorelo. Viagra or herbal Viagra like Horn from Ultimate-herbal.com. These will probably help to assist with your husbands impotences problems.
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