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Q: Ok Am I Wrong Here?

asked by: nikki_caro on May 11th, 2004

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Ok well its a long story how I started talking to this guy, but my friend who is in jail, had this guy call me on 3-way and stuff but I missed the call so me and this kid kept talking. Hes 18 and he loves talking to me. He used to work at babies r us and he knows im pregnant and married but hes like " I wanna meet you! Call me later!" things like that. And I havent told jose we have been talking. Its only as friends though. Strictly that. Id never cheat on jose. But my mom is telling me im not allowed to be talking to guys cuz im married but im like hello, hes 18! And hes a real sweet boy, im trying to get him to meet my younger sister! Lol. But this kid is like "when I get a girlfriend she will never be as cool as you!" and im laughing at him and stuff. But my question is, should I not be talking to this kid? Or am I ok, because he just likes talking to me, and you know me I love to talk! Lol but I dont want to feel like im hiding things. I dont know im confused..Again.

Replies(18)

linuxChique

replied on May 11th, 2004

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Tell him you're married and not looking. Tell jose you found a new friend and like talking to him. Tell your mom she needs some new friends too! That way you can keep him as a friend but not hide anything from your husband.

insurancegirl

replied on May 11th, 2004

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nikki_caro

replied on May 11th, 2004

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Im not sure if jose will be ok with it. Hes fine with other guys but then some he doesnt like me talking too! Lol. No there would never be any sexual tension. I have more guy friends than anything and that has never been a problem at all. I think male friends are best than a bunch of girl friends. I just get along better with guys kinda. I do call this guy a kid because to me thats what he is. He knows im not looking at all. Because when he wanted to meet and I said no I look bad, he was like "who cares what you look like your pregnant and married duh!" but he is a kid really, I can tell that because of the way he talks and stuff. Ill just tell jose that im talking to him as more like a sister (which is true) and hopefully he will be ok with it!

insurancegirl

replied on May 11th, 2004

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theoryofthought

replied on May 11th, 2004

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Well it sounds pretty innocent to me. He is just admiring the fact that you are cool to talk with and that he can confide in you and that he wants that in a relationship. As long as he knows you are married and that you are there strictly as a friend there shouldn’t be a problem. Just let your husband know, because if, hypothetically he finds out from someone other than you, it may seem as though you’re trying to hide something. Seriously though I think its fine.

nikki_caro

replied on May 11th, 2004

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Yeah thats why I want to tell him because I know my fam will blab to him on accident and he will get more mad. But I find the only reason there will be any sexual tension, is if you come off as wanting something more than a friendship. But with all my guy friends I let them know ahead of time that im not about to get with them for whatever reason and they always respected that. Even when I was drunk and fell asleep on the couch, they left me alone or sat and watched tv. Plus my sister was there to beat them even if they wanted to try something lol

smith8500

replied on May 11th, 2004

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Hey

Hey nikki! Ya know I love you so I am going to be honest with you. It's wrong. Only because of the fact that you know you would blow your lid if you knew jose was talking to a girl/woman/female of any age. No matter if she was in jail or down the road....... So therefore, it isn't right for you either. But, if you insist on talking to this "kid" as you refered to him, girl you gotta be honest with jose! And don't get angry with him if he doesn't like the idea.....
Love,
chanda

KariM18

replied on May 11th, 2004

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Well honestly.. I mean it is innocent but at the same time, would u want him talking to an 18 yr old girl?.. . U just gotta look at it in their shoes too*

nikki_caro

replied on May 11th, 2004

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Well see its different. I would never cheat at all. And if jose were to start talking to girls, I dont trust girls at all. I know they would hit on him. And him being the big dummy he is wont see that. I know how girls are out here. But with me talking to guys. I keep it strictly friends and talking about nonsense to each other. Thats all I do is talk on the phone with them. I dont go out with them or pick them up or see them at all. I just talk on the phone. But im gonna talk to jose though. Plus he does talk to alot of people at work. I dont. I talk to you guys lol.

insurancegirl

replied on May 11th, 2004

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nikki_caro

replied on May 12th, 2004

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You should so you should talk to him. I just know how jose is and I know how I am. I wouldnt cheat and I wouldnt flirt. Im just me. Jose flirts and gets girls to like him. Ive seen him when we werent dating. You and mike need to talk then

insurancegirl

replied on May 12th, 2004

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nikki_caro

replied on May 12th, 2004

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Well that sux. I dont know what to say then, hes just stubborn and cant get it out of his mind. I know I dont trust jose. Especially when that hoodrat said jose hit on her, I do still tell jose things like that and he doesnt have my trust and stuff. It just happens.

insurancegirl

replied on May 12th, 2004

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KissyBai912

replied on May 13th, 2004

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Noooooooooo nikki dont listen to them! Dont tell jose! Remember when yall told me that I should tell dewitt that camerin was here and we had talked? Do u remember what happened? Let me remind u.....He went nuts! Dont do it! Lol......Ur not doing anything wrong nikki. But if you feel that guilty just tell him. And tell your mom to shut up. Lol.

nikki_caro

replied on May 13th, 2004

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Lol I told him a little bit that I talked to him and was trying to set him up with my sister and he got all mad!!!! I knew I shoudlnt have told him, but it had to come out. Then he was like, why are you giving out your nimber so much and blah blah blah. Then finally he went to sleep and hopefully he forgot about it.

KissyBai912

replied on May 13th, 2004

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I told u not to.......Lol. Im a nerd.

nikki_caro

replied on May 13th, 2004

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Lol yeah you told me too late! Oh well, I just hope he forgets lol

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