I was kinda up set because when I found out that I was pregnant I went and searched the net for baby info and I found this site and decided to join this forum because I wanted to met new friends who were going to be supportive through-out my pregnancy. I should have known better to have associated with a teen pregnancy forum. I figured if they were old enough to have baby, then they should be mature enough for the subjects talked about in the forum. Instead, I encounter little miss think-they-know it all, immature little girls. I am not talking about all of you, just the ones who think I am fake. First of all I think that is bs, I don't care what you little girls think about me, I am clear as crystal and I have nothing to hide. It is so sad, you girls must not have a life, if all you have time to do is sit around and do all kinds of research just to prove that some one is fake. It must of been one of you with no life, who outed babyp. Now she was fake and she deserved what she got but not me, ive been nothing but real. And so what if some one is fake, it's not that big of a deal like some of you think it is. I don't care enough to worry about who is fake on this forum and who is not, i'll go to a topic and answer their questions if I can, it's not important to me if they are fake or not. The thought doesn't even cross my mind but that is the difference between me and some of the lower mentality girls on this site. I wouldn't of even bothered to join this site if I wasn't truly preganant. I don't have time to worry about what you girls think. I go to college and I work a full time job. I try to log on to this site at least once a day, to be there for these girls and help them if I can. I guess i'll start by answering your questions, and I have justification for all of them.
How come in one post u state that u had a miscarriage when u were thirteen but in two other posts u say how u and ur boyfriend have been using no birth control for 6 years and u havent even gotten pregnant yet??
I had a miscarriage when I was 13 years old, not with the guy I am seeing now. I stated that I have been with my current boyfriend for 6 years and I am now 22 years old, now count back six years, yeah that's right I was 16 when I met my current boyfriend(i've posted that obviously you didn't do your research to well.)
also, u posted on april 30th saying u were 8 weeks and then on may 2nd, u were suddenly 9 weeks????
Well that is kinda a stupid question but here it goes.. On april 30th when I made a post I was more then half way through my 8th wk and then on may 2 I posted I turned 9wks that day. (duh, how easy is that to understand!!)
also, u said u were only experiencing light bleeding in ur last post with no crampings whatsoever but in another old post u wrote that u were having cramps
well another dumb question but okay, one day when I posted I was experiencing light cramps. Another day I posted I wasn't having any cramps. (duh, two separate days.) but mostly no cramps.
With a micsarriage, when they take blood tests, they will notice right away if the baby has died due to the hcg dropping, so they would have figured it out if u were having a m/c or not.... I know becuz ive had one.
Well they did take blood test, and I am not so sure what to tell you about this except all they told me was that my blood tests came back alright and everything looked okay except that they couldn't hear a heart beat. And I am not leaving anything out, that is just about what all they told me.
In one it says shes never been pregnant. .And in the other it says she miscarried!That doesnt just slip ur mind!
You see when I was pregnant when I was 13. I never knew for sure if I was pregnant but I had a suspision that I was. I never took a test because for one I was only 13, I didn't want my parents to find out, and how would a 13 year old get to the store to buy one. Then one day, I woke up and there was blood every where and I was cramping so bad I could not walk. It hurt like hell. I couldn't walk so I crawled to the bathroom. My mom saw me and she took me to the hospital and they confirmed that I had been pregnant but that I had a miscarriage. It's not like I go around telling people "yea, my first pregnancy when I was 13..... Blah, blah, blah. How could I say that with pride and joy for my first pregnancy, when I didn't even know I was pregnant. This time was different...And yea I do tell people that was my first pregnancy. I took two home pregnancy test and even confirmed the positive result at the clinic. I planned for it, I got on medicare and signed up for wic and all that stuff. I went through the happiness and excitement of me being a mother. This time I knew what it was like to be pregnant. So this pregnancy was real to me. My 1st real pregnancy. Miscarriages run in my family, so I was scared from day one of the possibility of a miscarriage. My sister had a miscarriage back in june or july of last year.
Some of you are speculating because I told you that it took us six years get pregnant, well I don’t know the reason for that. I don’t know if there is something wrong with me or something wrong with him. We are not exactly trying to conceive, so no I am not going to a fertility specialist or anything like that. Our philosophy is that if it happens, it happens and that would be wonderful. It could be that my boyfriend will be 30 years old this year, or that he loves to smoke a hell of a lot of weed! I just don’t know what to tell you about why it took us 6 years.
I’ve been on my own since I was 17 and my parents won’t let me come back home, believe me i’ve asked. To get technical, I am poor. I live in a trailer park in mississippi, w/ no car right now. My boyfriend and I have to bum a ride to work and college everyday. The only reason why I have this computer is because it is old and it was given to me. I can’t afford to buy a scanner; I wish I did so I could show you my positive test result from the clinic or the emergency room report from saturday. I don’t even have a printer.
I am not going to stop coming to this site because some of you think I am fake, I know different. Even though I am not pregnant any more, I can still give advice to these girls that want it. Since I am going to college majoring in pre-med. I want to become a pediatrician or a obgyn, I haven’t decided yet. I didn’t ask to have a miscarriage it just happened and don’t think for a minute just because there is a healthy baby growing inside of you now that it can’t happened to you later and I don’t think you’d want any one to think you’re fake just because you had a miscarriage. But like I said I will be there for the girls who do believe me because after all that is why I joined this forum, to be a true friend to any one who needs one. If you are one of those girls who go as far as going out of the way to do research just to try and stab someone in the back about someone they know nothing about, then you are truly no friend at all. For the rest of you girls I recommend not even associating with people like these girls. Last of all I am not so called fake, I wouldn’t even waste my time typing this long ass reply if I was! You might have been right about baby p but you are sooo wrong about me!!!
A bit of advice to those of you who think I am fake: open mouth, insert foot, it’s what you deserve.
Baby_jasmine26
