I went to the emergengy room yesterday like I siad I was, it took six long hours, for them to do what they had to do. Then the doc finally came out and told me that I had a miscarriage. I didn't even want to go to the hospital but my boyfriend made me because he was worried about me and the baby. I was just having light spot bleeding, nothing serious. I didn't cry but my boyfriend squaled like a baby! I am suppose to be 9 wks but the doctor said the fetus was only 8 wks and they could not detect a heartbeat. I asked him when can they detect a heartbeat and he said 3-4 wks and I was thinking bs. When I found out that I was pregnant I went baby crazy and I search the internet for any thing and everything there is to know about pregnancy and every baby site says that a heartbeat can not be detected until the 10-12 wks. For one, the doctor wasn't even an obgyn he was some er doctor and he acted as though he had no idea what was going on. He said that it appears that I had a miscarriage, like he wasn't all a matter of fact. He said that the hospital likes to let nature take it's course when it comes to miscarriages but it doesn't happen by next week they will do a d&c. I am in denial right now. I just keep hoping that he was wrong, like maybe I miscalculated a week and maybe it is too early to hear a heartbeat. I mean this can not be real, this can not be it. It took me and my boyfriend six years to conceive, what am I suppose to do now? Right now as I type this, I am just fine, I mean all I am doing is spot bleeding, no cramps, nothing! My first prenatal visit is this thursday, with a real obgyn, the er doctor told me to keep that appoinment with her. So I could get a second opinion, if I wanted it. What do you guys think? Did I have a miscarriage? Do you think I should get a second opinion? I don't think I can go through that again. I guess my boyfriend and I are going to keep trying. Well we never use any form of birth control any way. So his motto is if it happens it happens and if it don't then it just don't. What is meant to happen will happen! I am just driving my self crazy, praying that the obgyn tells me on thursday that my baby is okay. Please any one respond back I really need the support! Thanks!