i have been w/ my bf for over a yr and a
half, hes the perfect guy, when we first
got together i was emotionally detached
and was full of doubts an worries, and i
had tons of walls up, but he was great
about it he helped me break down all those
walls and our relationship was great until
a few days ago, we hit a big bump in the
road, an as a result we both found out
that there is still one wall i have built
up..but this wall is different, i cant
trust myself enough to trust anyone in my
life fully, including this guy. i trust
the guy i knw that for a fact, but i dont
knw how to get past this one wall, but if
i dont then our relationship is over, and
i dont want to lose this guy, and i do
want to b able to trust not only him, but
my family, and my closest friends....i
just dont knw how....anybody have any
advice?? plz help
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ladyT02
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Posted: 03-01-08 17:01pm
i totally understand were your coming from
cause i had some trust issues with my guy
a few weeks back, never had them with any
guys just him, but its hard to give advice
if your not telling us what that wall is.
PM me if youd like.
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Xalleah08
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trust issues Posted: 06-01-08 19:55pm
Sometimes it is hard to completly trust
anyone and I really can't tell you how to
get past this wall. Just keep trying to
work through it and whenever you have
doubts, talk to him about it and explain
exactly why you are feeling that way. I
have been with my husband for many years
now even though we just gor married
recently, and there are still times when I
don't trust him completly. There are other
times when I am still not complethy open
about things, but I am trying really hard
to get past that and he knows that. It
takes a lot of time for me to break
through all the walls still. good luck!
