do you think it is less romantic? why? is it old fashioned to think that only men should propose marriage? we are supposed to be post-feminism, so what does a woman proposing marriage to a man mean in this day and age? are you for it or against it?

(of course i'm speaking only about heterosexual couples here. i don't know the specific dynamics of most homosexual relationships but because they are both the same gender i didn't think the question applied or didn't know how to apply it, perhaps.)