OK.I have a question for all mothers or anyone that would offer me and honest opinion.I gave birth to a baby girl 7 weeks ago.I stopped bleeding 2 weeks after she was born but still had a little lochia left.After my bleeding stopped me and my fiance messed around and he entered me a little bit nd after a few strokes I coudn't deal with the pain so he stopped(unprotected..I know thats TMI but I gotta get detailed).After about a week the lochia had stopped and my hormones were oging crazy.We used a condom the next time and after that round we went for another without.HE used the withdrawal method but says he pre-came in me a lot.Anyways..we did it a few more different occassions using that method..I know...stupid right..anyways..I've been having cramps now for about 2 weeks.Feels like PMS cramping..then it feels like the cramping I had with my daughter when I was newly pregnant.I hadn't had my period yet and I'm starting to get a little concerned about whether or not I'm pregnant.I"d appreciate any opinions.MY stomach went down to pre-pregnancy about 1-2 weeks after birth and now its pudged back out.Maybe its in my mind or I'm bloated but people have noticed that as well.PLease give me your opinions.