Oh, No.. I'm very sorry to hear this....

How old are you & him?

I wish you the best of luck with everything & just remeber:
"Everything happens for a reason!" &
"What meant to be will always find away!"

hey i am 17 going on 18 in may and he is 19 going on 20 the 11th of march. i love him so much. i want him back

yea, i kno how it is to lose someone that you really do love. Its tough, but if you guys are really meant to be together, then it will happen! If it dosen't happen, I promise you will get throu it. It might take some time, but you will get throu it! You might always care about him & have feelings for him, but you will be ok!

Good luck w/ everything!

I'm sorry this happened. Why did you lie to him? There is really nothing you can do unless maybe you can try and earn his trust back which will be very hard because it wasn't just once.

i know i shouldn't of lied to him i was just use to lieing to everybody in my life before him because if i told my step dad the truth i got hurt. so i was scared but i realized i don't have to lie to him for him to love me he loves me no matter what. maybe i can earn his trust back who knows. thanks you guys

Have you made a post about lying before? Like a *while* ago? I think I remember you posting. Maybe ask him if you guys can try counceling? That is a habit you really have to break. i know it's hard to break old habits, but he isn't from your past.

It takes awhile to earn trust back, I'm going through that right now. But, you guys need to try for you son. If it doesn't work out after your son is born, fine, but talk to him and let him know you guys need to give it one more shot for your unborn child.

hey thanks that is a good idea i will talk to him about counsling thanks

This is the way I see it.........you both are about to become parents. If you still love him and he loves you......START OVER....Talk to him and promise him you will not lie to him. Tell him you understand it takes time, trust and a lot of forgivness, but you really want to have this baby in a two parent relationship. COming form a broken home.......hurts....my parents split when I was 5. I envy those kids whose parents are still together....Relationships are a lot of work, but if two people love each other and espcially if a baby is involved......its worth it. You have to mean what you say........you will NOT lie to him again. Lying is a trait that is like has to be worked on as well. My daughter is/was a compulsive liar. Its hard for me, as her Mother to believe anythign she has to say. She has lied to cover up lies....But I love her.....she is my daughter. I do hope you and your "baby's Daddy" can start over. This means not bringing up the past...starting new..... God bless you all!

Please take good care of yourself and your babies by staying out of trouble. If the kids are your number one and you'd die for them, then give up the troublemakin' darlin, else you are lying to yourself. The kids need you, they don't need you hurt or in jail. And since dad isn't around ... who else have they got?
And I hope you can work things out with your love life. Love doesn't bloom when lying to the beloved. Samantha, the truth shall set you free, ever hear that before?
You can turn this around just by making the right decisions.
I know you can find happiness and heal. We choose our own destiny. Choose wisely.

Take care