Honey, get out before anything bad has the chance to happen. He obviously is not what you are looking for. You want a relationship and he wants his party time. those two do not mesh well together if something is not compromised. Also, do you think it's fair of him to take that attitude toward you? i don't. He sounds like he doesn't care so I would just leave him before, like I said, anything has the chance to happen.

Hi I want to know what eveyone else thinks of this. I am getting married next year and been with my partner for 7 years. I was so excited about getting married , but recently I have been picking up on the things that have really disgusted me about him in the past or currently - I know I love him but I guess I am being spooked cos we are getting married and it is such a big thing.

When we first moved in together I saw him eat his own eye gew - yes I felt sick and although everything else in our relationship is great I feel sick everytime I think of it. I know this sounds petty but I want to know what other girls think? Do your boyfriends do anything like this am I being shallow - should I forget about it??

The only other two things are he bites his nails and picks the odd spot he gets.

Is this a perfectly natuaral blokish thing to do??????? I dont mind so much the biting of nails and picking of the odd spot but the eye gew thing eeeuuuuww!!

Why have you accepted this for such a long time?...Why didn't you try to stop his biting his nails and eating his eye gew?....Whatever you are seeing now you must be prepared to see the rest of your life...The nails are not bad, but the eye gew is something else...It not only sounds unhealthy, but it would get me sick....

Good luck,
Caroline

my ex was like that! he smoked and wanted to go to the shaky-butts bar. all his friends was single and we were the only couple at the time. now he's single and all his friends has girlfriends. he didnt appreciate me and push me to the side. he treated me so bad i wouldnt pee on him if he was on fire. leave that looser alone. his showing you red flags, this is how he's going to treat you in the whole relationship.