In their young lives, do parents have the right to use their children in the blame game, use their children as pawns as a means to hurt the other parent?

Don't children have the right to be left out of the major wars people wage when they are acting out their anger, their revenge, the need to get even?

Children are for the rest of your life and somehow you have to get past those things that come right now that seem it is only the two of you in a battle to the death (emotionally and rights to see your children.) The father, as well as the mother, has rights to see their children.