Hi all,
Of late, I have noticed very small bumps on the shaft of my penis (for the past 2 months). After doing some research, I came across Fordyce's spots and Genital warts. I have seen few images of how the infections look & they don't look as bad as warts & would say the close resemblance is to the spots. I have had a physical relationship with my Girl Friend (GF) for the past 3 years. I never got her pregnant. We were also involved in oral sex(without a condom). We did play without a condom but that was just a minute or two & after I felt that it's dangerous to continue without a condom, I used to slip one on & then I used to finish the act.

Now I had to leave town for work & after 3 months of staying away from her, I have noticed this change(appearance of bumps) on my penis shaft. I did not have any physical relationship with any other woman over here. I am really worried. When I got together with my GF, we exchanged HIV/AIDS health reports & we both were negative. I had physical relationship only with her. She also had 2 kids with 2 other men previously and the kids are living with their fathers. I believed her so much & only after seeing the reports, our physical act got serious. I thought I am good & safe with a clean woman.

I don't have any other problems like pain in my genital area or irritation/emissions etc. The spots/bumps are painless. One day they appear less visible & the next day, then appear more obvious. Can anyone please suggest me some effective means to get rid of the problem? If not, can anyone please suggest me a doctor in this area who can help me? Should I see a Dermatologist or Urologist? I don’t have a physician as I am new to this place. What would be a reasonable charge for such kind of a treatment if I am tested positive for the same? And how much time would it take for the cure? What do you call a doctor who treats a condition like Genital warts or Fordyce spots in men? Please tell me so that even I can try to get some help. How can I make sure that the doctor knows what he is doing & not taking me for a ride just as some others. I have read in the forums that the treatment that the doctor offered to get rid of the problem did not work, as the doctor diagnosed the problem wrongly. No offense to anyone or any doctors, but those doctors clearly did not tell that they could not be confident about what it was & offered another treatment when it was something else. So I want to be away from that kind of stuff. Again, please forgive me if it sounds harsh. I am just worried.

I even read that sometimes the warts disappear automatically & don't come back. Is this true? Do I wait & see? If yes, how much time should I wait before the warts can disappear? I cannot call them warts as per the images that I have seen, but most likely look like Fordyce Spots.

I appreciate an early reply in this regard. Please kindly help me. I am worried and this pain in my heart about this unconfirmed situation is killing me.

Thank you very much in advance.