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Q: Dealing with blinding migraines and work
asked by: tokimacross on February 23rd, 2008
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Greetings. I am a new user since I stumbled over this and I figured maybe there will be other people with similar problems and we might be able to help each other out.

I am 24 and have had chronic Migraines for 6 years now. And not just a migraine every so often, I mean one everyday for 6 yeas. And those of you out there know it's not an easy thing having one, let alone one for this long.

Though I do admit that it changes in intensity, so for the most part I can deal with it, but there are those days where I want to do little besides curl into a ball and hide from the world.

That is my question. How can I tell people and make them understand about my headaches without being fired from my job due to occasional really bad days? I had to stay home today just because I was literally blinded by my headaches and couldn't do anything. I literally had someone else push in the buttons to call in for work since I was so light sensitive even the mild cell phone light hurt my eyes and rendered me blind.

Well, it wasn't blind blind can't see... more like even a tiny bit of light rendered my headache so bad I couldn't see... Kind of migraine. I have only gotten this rarely, maybe like four times total, but I still had to miss work for it.

How can I explain to someone that this can happen when ever and where ever? And can last for days, or be over in an instant? How can you inform an employer that you have no control over this and can't help it? And no matter what doctor I go visit too, I can't exactly get a doctors note for missing long periods of work with something that can't be physically located by any type of medical equipment. I did Cat Scans, MRI's, and all that. But it doesn't show up at all. And I've done so much meds that it isn't even funny anymore. Which they never help anyway.

I'm just worried that my bosses will eventually grow tired of my 'so called migraines' and I'm out of a job since I am absent ever so often.

Any suggestions? I could use some.

Thank you ahead of time.

~Toki
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MandMs
replied on March 5th, 2008
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Hi, toki!
Welcome to ehealthforum!

It's well known for medical practitioners and those how suffer migraine, that this condition can affect and cause visual disturbances.
Increased sensitivity to light and flashing light sensations that interfere with vision, are all part of migraine symptoms.
Migraine headache and other symptoms are usually debilitating and any activities during attack can make them worse.
All of these can be written and guaranteed by your GP, an internist or neurologist, like an excuse for your missings from work.
I don't know if you are under some migraine regimen, but someone that is experiencing symptoms regularly and it interferes with his daily living, is a serious candidate for migraine treatment.

Best wishes!
Marija
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serpentinasolis
replied on April 22nd, 2009
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FMLA!
Have you tried FMLA (Family Medical Leave Act) Its a *federal* law that allows you to miss work because of approved medical reasons. I'm currently on it for horrible horrible headaches and face pain. Look into it and if you have questions email me!
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ServiceU
replied on May 4th, 2009
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i suffered from imgraine headaches for years. i would get them twice a week. i would crawl up in a ball and cry to God. it sometimes feel like someone was stabbing me in my head, sensitive to light, so much pain i felt nauseous. the doctor said i strain my eyes and need glasses, and i look at a computer screen all day.
but once i stop working, and left my ex boyfriend my migraines went a way. and ive been migraine free for 2 years. -1 episode. so mines was caused by stress. imetrex only shorten the duration of pain.
please research holistic herbal remedies. try something different.
good luck
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beth1954
replied on June 29th, 2009
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During that time that I described in other threads where I had about 60 migraines in the span of 2 months, and to go home many times. My boss at the time was pretty understanding. I didn't/couldn't use FMLA because you have to be gone more than 3 days at a time. That was usually not the case for me. And to use it, you have to have alot of sick leave or vacation leave to use so that you get a check. I agree with MandMs...get a note from the doctor. My psychiatrist wrote me a note for my boss. The best thing that happened to me was when other people in my division where I work also had migraines! Not very nice to say, but true. Right now there are 4 people in my division that get migraines. So they can "vouch" for me when I'm gone. Some people will just never understand. One lady here said "I don't know about you and Jill.....always complaining about 'migraines'. She was very sarcasticand uncaring. About a year later, she started having clusters. NOW she understands.
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