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Q: orgasm for a woman ?
asked by: EuroRSX on February 22nd, 2008
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Hi, I finally found a girl that I can be close to and I love her like no other. We are finally getting close where I am fingering her and starting to eat her out. We are very open but she is shy talking about these things, but I just want to know is this "prior" or "during" the orgasm. When I finger her clitoris her body jerks strongly (can't tell if its her legs or vaginal area). When she has those jerking feeling (usually when I am fingering her more intesely) does that mean she is working up to an orgasm or did she have one? Should I continue fingering her and does it hurt rubbing the clitoris after she did have an orgasm? Any input it appreciated.
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marvel
replied on February 22nd, 2008
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I think that every woman in different. Normally jerking is a normal sign of intense arousal, and can mean orgasm. Normally, though, an orgasm is so intense that the body seizes up and she'll probably make noises.

Your best bet, though, is to talk about it. Ask her what feels the best. Ask her if she likes having her clitoris stimulated after she orgasms. The key to good sex is communication (and safety!)
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marvel
replied on February 22nd, 2008
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I think that every woman in different. Normally jerking is a normal sign of intense arousal, and can mean orgasm. Normally, though, an orgasm is so intense that the body seizes up and she'll probably make noises.

Your best bet, though, is to talk about it. Ask her what feels the best. Ask her if she likes having her clitoris stimulated after she orgasms. The key to good sex is communication (and safety!)
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Biani
replied on February 22nd, 2008
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Well, as they say, every woman is different...
From what I know, I would say the jerking IS the orgasm. And if you continue to rub after, it doesn't hurt, but it starts to feel 'weird'. I think it's the same with the way you would feel. And again, every man is different i suppose... But I think that right after you orgasm you don't continue the movements, do you? Not cause it hurts, but because it feels 'weird'? lol, i don't know how to describe this...
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MiseEire
replied on February 23rd, 2008
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Female orgasm is a lot different to male orgasm which is mainly built around one moment. I guess the jerking is a sign that some stimulation is taking place and you're working towards the right area. Apparently, a powerful female orgasm feels much more powerful than a male orgasm.
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marvel
replied on February 27th, 2008
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Though I'm not really arguing with you... how would anyone know if the female orgasm is more powerful than the male orgasm? Nobody can be completely anatomically female at one point in time and then completely anatomically male (or vice versa) at another point in time. It's one of life's great mysteries regarding the genders.
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EuroRSX
replied on March 8th, 2008
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Alright, well I talked to her yesterday she was jerking a lot in her legs and it was for a good minute or so, we were kinda interputed and when I asked her if she cummed she said no. Should I apply more pressure to the clitoris? I can't finger her as fast when more pressure is applied, which then she stops jerking as intensely and I have to work up to it again... I guess I am looking for some pointers on how to make her cum.

Is it pleasurable for a girl to stick fingers inside the vagina while fingering the clitoris?
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marvel
replied on March 9th, 2008
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This is where good communication can come in to play. Only she knows the answer to your question. Ask her if it is what she wants.
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Roberta777
replied on March 9th, 2008
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to the point they really, really want to have sex with you. Lots of ways to acheive that. Your sweetness, kind attitude, amorous feelings the kind of touch that would want your partner want to have sex with you.

When your partner is into wanting to be with you, then, if you are the person who is the initiator, take your time. Make it special.

Does a partner want to feel like they have to deliver to their partner "yes", there it goes? Sounds to me as if your lady was getting into it.

After a partner really has an orgasm, leave it alone until they can calm down. Then, if you want to go for the next round, great!
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EuroRSX
replied on March 14th, 2008
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Well I talked to her, and I am doing everything right. I guess I just have to work at it... This is my first girl that I been this close with, I guess I'm more of a guy that is dependant on a close relationship in order to get close with my partner. Thanks for all the input, its greatly appreciated.
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