Hi, I finally found a girl that I can be
close to and I love her like no other. We
are finally getting close where I am
fingering her and starting to eat her out.
We are very open but she is shy talking
about these things, but I just want to
know is this "prior" or "during" the
orgasm. When I finger her clitoris her
body jerks strongly (can't tell if its her
legs or vaginal area). When she has those
jerking feeling (usually when I am
fingering her more intesely) does that
mean she is working up to an orgasm or did
she have one? Should I continue fingering
her and does it hurt rubbing the clitoris
after she did have an orgasm? Any input it
appreciated.
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marvel
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Posted: 02-22-08 11:45am
I think that every woman in different.
Normally jerking is a normal sign of
intense arousal, and can mean orgasm.
Normally, though, an orgasm is so intense
that the body seizes up and she'll
probably make noises.
Your best bet, though, is to talk about
it. Ask her what feels the best. Ask her
if she likes having her clitoris
stimulated after she orgasms. The key to
good sex is communication (and safety!)
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marvel
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Posted: 02-22-08 11:45am
I think that every woman in different.
Normally jerking is a normal sign of
intense arousal, and can mean orgasm.
Normally, though, an orgasm is so intense
that the body seizes up and she'll
probably make noises.
Your best bet, though, is to talk about
it. Ask her what feels the best. Ask her
if she likes having her clitoris
stimulated after she orgasms. The key to
good sex is communication (and safety!)
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Biani
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Posted: 02-22-08 11:57am
Well, as they say, every woman is
different...
From what I know, I would say the jerking
IS the orgasm. And if you continue to rub
after, it doesn't hurt, but it starts to
feel 'weird'. I think it's the same with
the way you would feel. And again, every
man is different i suppose... But I think
that right after you orgasm you don't
continue the movements, do you? Not cause
it hurts, but because it feels 'weird'?
lol, i don't know how to describe this...
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MiseEire
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Posted: 02-23-08 09:08am
Female orgasm is a lot different to male
orgasm which is mainly built around one
moment. I guess the jerking is a sign that
some stimulation is taking place and
you're working towards the right area.
Apparently, a powerful female orgasm feels
much more powerful than a male orgasm.
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marvel
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Posted: 02-27-08 15:00pm
Though I'm not really arguing with you...
how would anyone know if the female orgasm
is more powerful than the male orgasm?
Nobody can be completely anatomically
female at one point in time and then
completely anatomically male (or vice
versa) at another point in time. It's one
of life's great mysteries regarding the
genders.
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EuroRSX
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Posted: 03-08-08 17:37pm
Alright, well I talked to her yesterday
she was jerking a lot in her legs and it
was for a good minute or so, we were kinda
interputed and when I asked her if she
cummed she said no. Should I apply more
pressure to the clitoris? I can't finger
her as fast when more pressure is applied,
which then she stops jerking as intensely
and I have to work up to it again... I
guess I am looking for some pointers on
how to make her cum.
Is it pleasurable for a girl to stick
fingers inside the vagina while fingering
the clitoris?
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marvel
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Posted: 03-09-08 16:41pm
This is where good communication can come
in to play. Only she knows the answer to
your question. Ask her if it is what she
wants.
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Roberta777
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Got To Get Your Woman or Mate Posted: 03-09-08 18:24pm
to the point they really, really want to
have sex with you. Lots of ways to
acheive that. Your sweetness, kind
attitude, amorous feelings the kind of
touch that would want your partner want to
have sex with you.
When your partner is into wanting to be
with you, then, if you are the person who
is the initiator, take your time. Make it
special.
Does a partner want to feel like they have
to deliver to their partner "yes", there
it goes? Sounds to me as if your lady was
getting into it.
After a partner really has an orgasm,
leave it alone until they can calm down.
Then, if you want to go for the next
round, great!
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EuroRSX
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Posted: 03-14-08 01:06am
Well I talked to her, and I am doing
everything right. I guess I just have to
work at it... This is my first girl that I
been this close with, I guess I'm more of
a guy that is dependant on a close
relationship in order to get close with my
partner. Thanks for all the input, its
greatly appreciated.
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