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Q: Ask him out?

asked by: Kaoriie on February 21st, 2008

New User

Hi everyone!! I'm asking this for a friend. She's having trouble on this and seeked me for help but I don't have any ideas to help her!!

Recently her lover gave her a rose, a box of chocolate, a hug, and a kiss to her on Valentine's Day.

She was really glad about that and she's building up her confidence and is being braver. She keeps asking me why he isn't asking her out.

I suggested her to ask but she said no. She doesn't like talking to him in front of his friends and could hardly find the time to talk to him alone. She won't ask for his phone #! (SO STUBBORN!!)

She's waiting desperately for him to ask her out. What should she do?

Replies(7)

MikeH90

replied on February 22nd, 2008

Experienced User

someone needs to give him a nudge. (perhaps you?) You don't specify ages so I assume you're all young. He's probably scared sh*tliss, not wanting to be rejected.

Little Miss Oops

replied on February 25th, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

awww sounds cute!!!! maybe a note perhaps?? ive done it before it works lol

Willa Weintraub

replied on February 25th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

Well if neither of them will make the move there is really nothing you can do. Unless you go talk to him for her. . . Smile

A note is a good idea also.

Little Miss Oops

replied on February 25th, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

yep yep yep

Kaoriie

replied on February 27th, 2008

New User

Well, we are all in grade 8. I don't think he's shy becuz he has a lotta guts with the rose and everythin. And I don't think I should talk to him about tis cuz he doesn't like other ppl interfering with his relationship with her. but my friends stressing out on this soo yeah. Maybe I need to do somethin quick.

justforfun

replied on February 27th, 2008

Experienced User

If she likes him she should talk to him. He apparently likes her or he wouldn't have gotten her those things. Tell her to suck it up and ask for his nuumber. The worst that can happen is he says no. And that's no big deal she would just know to move on. But I'm sure he won't say no!

Kaoriie

replied on February 29th, 2008

New User

yeah i know i've told her and she's scared to be rejected becuz the first dance we had this year she asked and he said no

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