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Q: oral sex

asked by: jaydasmama on February 21st, 2008

New User

hi i need help i have been with my girl for almost 2 years and she has no sex drive she is dry all the time (she never was before and she clams im the 1st to ever get her off) but clams to have an orgasam but is still dry i feel that she is lying but she says she is so into me and in love with me but just cant get wet. please tell me whats going on. i think she cheating but she swears shes not and she really doesnt have time she works 40 hours plus and we have our kid in our room cuz she wont go to bed in her own room. shes still a baby i really need help here.

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Tylanas

replied on February 22nd, 2008

Especially eHealthy

Some women don't produce a lot of vaginal discharge, even after they orgasm. Go buy some lube already. How old is she? Her body may just be changing. If she is under a lot of stress this can also affect her ability to get wet. It sounds like a child just came into your life and that's certainly a stressor.

Georgia59

replied on February 22nd, 2008

Especially eHealthy

Her level of lubrication has nothing at all to do with how much she wants or loves you. Really!

I agree with Eiri. Maybe she just doesn't get very lubricated- I don't. Maybe she is stressed, maybe her hormones are whacked from having had a baby recently.

Don't assume she's cheating!!

PrettyPT

replied on February 27th, 2008

Experienced User

sometimes when a girl is stressed it really affects her lubrication and i think it is also a factor of being pressured in bed, when you keep on asking her why she is not lubricating during sex, makes her uneasy and pressured, that will make her focus on the question why is she not lubricating rather than focusing on enjoying your sex together that will make her really wet.

orthodox23

replied on February 27th, 2008

New User

DUDE..

let her visit to her doctor maybe she has sjogren's syndrome..

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