I've only been with 1 but I stayed married to the jerk for 11 years so it seems like more!
Maybe it's because men aren't raised to respect women. The influence of media and family mostly portrays negative images of women. No one is teaching them differently.

I dunno... I like most guys I know. Who do you all hang out with?

Guys aren't so bad.

haha. i definatley met a lot of losers until the guy i am with now.
we have been together for almost a year and a half
everyone else i threw out the window haha
....guess it takes a lot of frogs to kiss to find the right prince huh

I call it "practice shots".............you gotta practice a while before you find a good one. Can't recall all the losers, I did marry 2 complete failure losers.......first marriage was almost 4 years, second marriage almsot 11 years (had my daughter) and then I met my wonderful man I have now. We've been married 14 years and been together going on 15. SOmeitmes you jsut are attracted to the 'wrong guys" I know I finally figured out I was feeling sorry for the losers and wnated to 'take care of"..............thats a bunch of caca.......now I am taken care of. Practice on girlfriend.........you have a whole world full of good ones out there just waiting to find someone like you! HUGS!

I love you! LOL You are adorable!! Thank you-- I swear I really should write a book on the insane drama I call my life! I just want to make sure I'm not 100% insane.. and it does take alot of losers, to find Mr. Right! Hopefully one day- I will find him

YettieGal, QUIT looking........let him find you girl! You do not have to be insane, it just HELPS get US through life! Too many serious folks on earth today. Oh, I am writing my own book..THINGS I"VE LEARNED FROM SHEER STUPIDITY! 1. Never iron naked............2. Deodorant wroks best if you remove that little plastic shield on top..........3. MAke sure its room deodorizer you are spraying ot kill odors and not furniture polish............4. Nasonex goes inyour nose....not your ear............etc etc! LOVE YOU BACK!

Well I wouldn't say that all the men I was ever with were loosers. Actually only one of them was a looser. All of the others....well we just didn't "click"!

I deffinately dated some real jerks before I found Daniel (husband). The positive thing is that once you find that really great guy, you appreciate him so much more after going through a few toolbags.

so so so so true lol

those LOSERS i was with dint last long.. ..i am with my man for 3 years and 4 months --the first few months was pretty smooth then the next few months was very rocky as hell, we broke up for a month then got back together another few months (year?) we decided its to live together..we've been living together for 3 months now..everything is okay..also as for the losers.. i am kinda thankful if not because of them the stupidity they did, i would be with my man right now..hahaha!

wel i got together with my man now because he is my brother's bestest friend lol ive been living with him since the first day we been together lol he just didn't want me to go home ever..... and that's 3 months ago so we haven't fought yet lol really really smoothly for us

It's awsome to know that there are success stories out there-- and hopefully one day I can include one lol.

Yettie

you will i promise lol.

I guess I really only dated one tried and true "loser". I dated quite a few guys who were great people and we had a great time but they weren't forever deals.

I'm glad I dated that loser. Taught me a whole lot!!!

I found my forever deal over five years ago. It just takes time!

I am single right now. I just broke up with my boyfriend, of 3 months, two days ago because he cheated on me. It hurts so bad because I trusted him. He is a looser for doing that to me, but I did learn a lot through this whole experience. I hope "Mr. Right" is out there somewhere for me, so that I, too, can include a success story.

I enjoyed practicing and learning (even with a few hurts). Here's what I learned: we really do teach people how to treat us - don't continue to see someone who treats you less than you deserve. Move on. Don't focus so much on the "pretty boy" good looks. You know the ones that look as if they stepped right off the pages of GQ? The "pretty boy" good looks are temporary. We all change with age. It's how they treat you that matters more than anything - and that can withstand time and be lasting. I'm now married to a man who absolutely adores me and I him, and we treat each other accordingly. So many jerks and losers exist because too many of us have been accepting of their behavior for too long. We didn't teach them that we were raising the bar and that they had to treat us better or they would not be treating us at all.

I dated three guys before I found the right girl, but that's probably not what you wanna hear.