hard to relax and get moist during sex Posted: 02-20-08 13:09pm
Only just started to have sex but i find
it very hard to totally relax, and i often
find that i can not get moist enough to
make sex comfortable and i am worried that
i am in fact too tight.Can anybody tell me
how to loosen up very embarrased would
like as much help as possible thankyou x x
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penpen
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2008 Posts: 56 Location: Minnesota,
Posted: 02-20-08 17:06pm
Foreplay works for me. My bf and I start
by kissing, and our hands start to roam
each other. Eventually we take each
other's clothes off, and continue to roam
each other's body. I give him a handjob,
and he fingers me and rubs my clit. This
goes on for a while, then we eventually
have sex. Just try to relax, and enjoy it.
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nightangel73
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Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 2603 Location: ,
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Posted: 02-20-08 22:00pm
Are you self conscious about your body?
Some women get concerned about how their
body looks when with a man and that is
reason why they can't relax.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 02-20-08 22:52pm
You could try using some store bought lube
too.
But definetly lots of foreplay
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marcone
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Aug 2008 Posts: 1
Posted: 08-21-08 06:28am
Find some nice relaxing music. That helps.
Love is more important than sex.
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Trafford
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2008 Posts: 2
Posted: 08-25-08 05:26am
My wife had the same problem. It is low
libido. Take Sentia pills or another
healthy supplement to increase your sex
drive.
