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Q: please give me your input
asked by: bellax0x on February 20th, 2008
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how would you say being a girl/woman has shaped you as an individual?

how does it shape the way you relate to others?

i am totally thankful for as much as you can give me!
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Lilly Ivy
replied on February 20th, 2008
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I was a huge tomboy before I met my fiancee. He basically turned me into a girly girl. But before hand I was basically a guy in my actions. Although there were situations where I was the 'girl'. I like being around people and because of this, I've always been talkative. But since not seeing anyone for about 7 months now, I find it hard to look at anyone in the eye when talking to them. Which bothers me more than it should.

But girl wise, I find myself now expecting him to open doors for me and things. I almost find myself acting like 'back when'. Walking behind him, not talking unless I'm talked to. Before I could give a hoot, but there's just something about him that changed me...
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Verizon-y
replied on February 20th, 2008
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I don't know how to answer this because I can't compare it to anything.
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bellax0x
replied on February 20th, 2008
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for example. i wrote being a woman has helped shaped me because i am more determined in order to fight the stereotypes facing women. and i can relate to people because as a woman i tend to be more empitetic than aman would be
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krystineM
replied on February 20th, 2008
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a theory written by Carol Gilligan, women are always more of a caring individual and think of things in a way that benifit all people not just male or females.
we dont do things just because society says we should or follow rules or fairness like men, we think more on someone caring for us. for example: theres a new thing going out in business' where if you reach a certain age your put on retitement leave. women would go about this differntly and say we should find a differnt job they can do thats not very physical or hard to do because as long as they can still contribute we shouldnt stop them from working. Men see this as if they cant do their job and we have to do all these things to accomidate them, we should retite them and find someone to fill their place.
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bellax0x
replied on February 20th, 2008
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thank you!!
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krystineM
replied on February 20th, 2008
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..your welcome i think?
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