As with any profession a patient should always research the Doctor they are interested in seeing. Just because someone has had advanced training does not make them a specialist or the best in their field. Take a plastic surgeon, there are many with years of training, yet there are those that are just average at best on a good day. Neuromuscular dentistry has and can change lives. I have seen it and continue to see lives improved. No it is not a cure all for everyone experiencing TMJ related symptoms, But the science behind the approach is real. As for the meds - many of the SSRI'S can have nocturnal grinding as a side effect. So many physicians are too lazy to actually try and find a problem with a patient and the magical cure for many is take a pill. Why would a patient want to consume medicine like, take lexapro, where the side effects range from dizziness, constipation, decreased appetite, premature ejaculation in men, decreased sex drive, diarrhea, flu-like symptoms, insomnia, sweating, fatigue, impotence, runny nose and sinusitis when there may be an option. SSSI's are an amazing thing when needed, but can also be an easy out for a Doc.
If someone is seeing a neuromuscular Dentist that only offers the option of full mouth reconstruction with porcelain then perhaps you should get a second or third opinion. There are always options, just as when someone needs glasses for visual improvement, they sometimes have the option to have a surgery that can eliminate the need to wear glasses, that is just an option, they can also opt. to just continue wearing glasses. A Orthotic can reposition the jaw into an ideal position and relieve symptoms for patients and give them back a normal life. The orthotic is both diagnostic and therapeutic, Moving beyond the orthotic is a option, which can include orthodontics, surgery, partial or full mouth reconstruction with porcelain as well as just continuing to wear a custom made orthotic. Just like glasses, if it improves your function, then it must be correcting something that is wrong. Many times partial or full mouth reconstruction is the best option due the the extreme wear, missing anatomy on the teeth due to the grinding. Bottom line do your research, talk to real patients from the office you have chosen, and remember you always have options, there is never only 1 way to do something and you can always do nothing if you so desire.